I don’t care how it comes across. This is a message board where you can express (most) of your views. The fact remains that my fiancee and I have incredible chemistry, tons in common and she is really attractive. I just happen to be better looking right now because she has a minor weight problem but I don’t care. We have a true relationship unlike the first 200+ other women that I went out with. We were talking about it last night and she started crying because she gained weight and we both tried to come up with some ways to make it better. I am not worried about it at all but she is a great public speaker and overall appearance is a component of that.