A few comments on this. First, a good apology is one that admits fault, acknowledges who you have harmed, and doesn’t look to shirk responsibility for what you’ve done. I’m still not exactly sure what the OP is admitting to, he certainly doesn’t acknowledge the hurt he has caused, and he deflects responsibility constantly.
Second, there is no requirement that people accept an apology, even if it’s a good one. An apology is only the start of the process. I am very willing to grant forgiveness if I see a genuine change in a person, but that takes time and a bit more than an empty apology.
Unfortunately, I see little change. As far as I can tell, he is not apologizing for his views of women, only for expressing them in an “inflammatory way.” But I’m not really offended by how he expresses himself, so I don’t need an apology for that. It’s his views that I find disgusting.
And those appear to be the same. He has repeated that he thinks the ugly things he said in the past were true (again, look at his statements I quoted in post #42). He says it was all years ago and he’s a new person now that he’s engaged, but a quick search of his posts in the last year shows that’s not the case. Here are a couple things he says about his wonderful fiance. No wonder he worries she’ll find out.
When someone tells me they “don’t tend to care about other people’s relationships or what they are doing,” I tend to believe them.