I probably should have just pitted him to begin with rather than continuing to engage him in this thread, which is classic Shagnasty bragging about how he goes on date after date with hot women, and…actually, I’m not entirely sure what the question in the OP was supposed to be. It seems like the bottom line is he’s tired of the dating game and wants a relationship and is feeling a restlessness or an emptiness, is tired of rejecting or being ghosted by women, is weary of screening hundreds of profiles a day (hundreds? really?). Now, none of this on its own are necessarily bad ways to feel. All normal when it comes to someone in the dating game. But the root of the problem is that Shagnasty is a misogynist who sees women as nothing more than a pretty face and a vagina.
Don’t believe me? Let’s review.
Gee, I wonder why Shags finds a successful career woman to be a poor partner. Could it be because she is not content to simply be the pretty young thing hanging on his arm, a trophy for him to parade around town, and a porn star in the sack? That’s it, guys. In Shagnasty land, that’s all a woman can bring to a relationship. Also, there’s no indication of what Shags brings to a partnership other than throwing money at them in hopes of getting laid. Very telling, that.
This isn’t the only place in the thread where he refers to dating as “charity”. Anyone have an idea yet why women may ghost this guy?
Talk in the thread turned to the infamous anecdote that Shags has told on the board several times, at least four that I could find, about how as a teenager he and his friend conspired to have Shags switch places with the (male) friend in the midst of the friend having sex with his girlfriend. My post here contains links to the four instances of the story being told on the board if you care to read it yourself. I’ll also quote the story here:
I, along with most of the other players in the thread informed Shags that he committed sexual assault. One thing that stuck out to me as being especially disgusting was this line:
Where do I even fucking start with this shit? Lucky for Shags she was on her period. Lucky for him. Not lucky for her that she narrowly missed being raped, lucky for him that he opted not to rape her because the consequences of sexual assault are terribly inconvenient. That line alone sums up Shagnasty’s view of women quite succinctly. And as you can see if you click on the link to my post, he’s so proud of this story he’s posted it at least four times on this board over the years, a couple of times verbatim, which seems to indicate he may have it saved as a word file or something. Yeah.
When that’s brought up in the thread, he ignores it for a bit, coming up with some more choice gems about women and dating:
What the fuck is this charity bullshit he keeps spouting?? Dating is not charity, you prick. Jesus fucking christ, this guy.
When he finally does respond to the discussion of his switcheroo story, he tries to make himself out to be the real victim:
That is not the story you told, bro. You rehearsed it with your buddy, you had a prearranged cue for when the switch was to happen, you hid in a closet and waited in order to do so. You planned it, practiced it, and executed it. Completely premeditated, and ample time for you to back out. But now that you’re being called out on it (because for some reason that I can’t quite comprehend, there was not much outrage generated when he told the story the past times, just a few raised eyebrows), you’re suddenly the terrified victim of the story, so terrified you just had to crawl on top of a woman in the dark, without her knowledge, and do things to her that she did not consent to.
He defends himself by calling it a teenage prank and claiming he and the victim are still friends to this day. He misses the point completely. The girl in question may not even be aware it happened. It may not have had a profound effect on her life or even any at all. The point is that he committed a violation and he is either unable or unwilling to understand that.
He also expresses not understanding why that story follows him around the board and still gets brought up to this day. The fact that he’s the one who’s so proud of the story he’s told it several times over the years seems to escape his attention. He does not express a single bit of regret or remorse. He wonders why the story “draws so much emotion”. Yeah, people so crazy, having strong reactions to stories of assault told with pride and not a lick of regret. We’re clearly the crazy ones here. Another choice gem:
That’s pure class. He throws the female victim under the bus by insinuating that she may have been in on it the whole time because reasons. Then he chalks up the outrage to “PC fury”.
To that I say, listen here, shitface: feel free to take your claims of PC fury, light them on fire, and shove them directly up your ass. This isn’t one of those “grey” he said/she said cases. You got into bed with a woman, in the dark, and kissed her and touched her body without her knowledge and without her consent. That is sexual assault. And no rationalization you try to make will change that, you sick freak. Oh, here’s another classic line:
Yeah, us women folk sure are weird when it comes to unwanted touching. Chicks are insane, you know.
There’s been some people discussing in that thread that Shags may have some kind of personality disorder. I usually kind of roll my eyes at that because that’s not an uncommon thing for people to suggest about an OP that’s the subject of a trainwreck du jour but in this case, I think there might be something to it.
When a poster brought up the fact that there’s not a statute of limitations for rape in the state where the incident Shags shared occurred, he posted a threatening comment to the said, but quickly edited it out - someone caught the edit, and he also sent the unedited version to another poster via PM, which I have copied below:
This is where IMO he takes a turn to kind of scary. He claims he isn’t dangerous because he is a professional who has children. Because no one who has committed any sort of dangerous crime has ever been a professional or been a parent. I mean, what? And read the line about 50 Shades of Grey - how much more fucked up can a person get? Women who enjoy reading erotic fiction aren’t allowed to have strong feelings about sexual assault? Why, Shags? Because the bitches are asking for it? Because women are nothing more than pretty faces with pussies? You’re a sick, twisted, misogynistic shithead and you deserve every minute of the emptiness and restlessness that you are experiencing. You will always experience it, because you don’t know any other way, and I’m glad you will likely never experience a real, fulfilling, loving relationship, because you don’t deserve it. You don’t deserve to be peed on if you were lit on fire. You need professional help, but whether or not you ever pursue it, I really could not care less. You’re a disgusting, horrible person.
Ta!