Gooooood question!
3 times a day
Oh I had to tell you how old I was well Im 24. But I really don’t think age has anything to do with it. I know I have some friends the same age as me call me a freak (which I am), but I am also happily engaged. And my significant other which is 34 would love to do it more than that, but come on I have to make him work for it lmao,
Yes, of course. And I’m glad you can laugh about it, I guess. But I’m still hoping things change for you. Sex is fun.
Female, 55, daily. When my kids were little, less often because I was exhausted. Other than that, I’ve always liked frequent sex. I think women over, say, 45, do tend to be more sexual than women in their 20’s and 30’s, but it’s a wide spectrum.
I also have to wonder if people are more apt to read/respond to this thread if they like sex frequently, or at least more frequently than they’re getting it.
Yes!
But not in a bad way. Inheriting a million bucks from a relative you didn’t know existed is abnormal, too.
Yeah, I’ve heard good things about it.
Y’know, the sad truth of it is that women probably just are not the hugely sexual creatures that men are. I mean, there really is a simple way to illustrate this:
Women do not experience the near-constant background horniness that men have to live with. That’s even been confirmed by a few of the posters in this thread, such as what rhubarbarin said:
Most guys have an almost constant mind for sex (meaning that it’ll be on their mind, at least fleetingly, several times throughout a given day), whereas women routinely go days, if not weeks, without even having a sexual thought; they typically aren’t “always on” like men tend to be.
I don’t want to sound crass or anything here, but that’s just generally where I’ve come to stand on this topic.
Speak for yourself.
31 yo female here. When I went on an SSRI a few months ago, I was warned that it might diminish my sex drive. Well, if it has, it’s only done so enough that I can think about something else occasionally.
(Only very slight hyperbole.)
Concur that frequency increases desire. A dry spell has a way of stretching itself out, while a really good romp has a way of making me go “let’s do that again as soon as humanly possible.”
Do we need to ask someone here to take one for the team and help you out with this, Robot Arm. I mean, you are really making me sad here.
I nominate not what you’d expect
You know, I might consider it, but I am really old.
We usually get in 2 or 3 rounds a week, but those are typically confined to the weekends. Sometimes we have a little after-work delight on Mondays. But Tuesday and Thursday my husband teaches martial arts and isn’t home until 9 or later, and he trains every other Wednesday, which means he’s home closer to 10. Fridays we go to the in-laws’ and often aren’t home until 11.
How about I just say reality 2, ideal 4.
No, thanks, but I appreciate the thought. And I like to maintain the illusion that I’m not quite such an ogre that I have to rely on someone “taking one for the team”.
Not that I want to discourage anyone who’s genuinely interested, either.
Don’t be. Someone said this thread would be self-selecting. I’m just trying to keep the numbers balanced a little bit. Maybe I’m just a contrarian at heart.
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No, thanks, but I appreciate the thought. And I like to maintain the illusion that I’m not quite such an ogre that I have to rely on someone “taking one for the team”.
Oh gosh, my joke was not meant to insult. I’m sorry.
I really really suck as a comic.
+1
…and don’t think I won’t :D.
Not to worry, I knew it was tongue in cheek. Just turning it back on you.
once would be nice.
If sex were still a quick and easy process, and if there was plenty of time and no outside obligations, then everyday would be lovely. But between long days and painful joints and the need for a large quantity of time to be devoted to the event, I now vote for every other day or maybe just twice a week. But I’m in a long-distance thing and only get to physically be with him every couple months, so we take good advantage of the time we have when we are together.
As to the issue of this being self-selecting and male female differences … some more objective information:
FWIW.