At my place of work, everyone pretty much gets along. We don’t directly impact the others work very much so it makes for a rather pleasant environment. However, we do get many breaks which does start the rumor mill going. Rumors spread about everything. The new uniforms, the racing season, the new TV’s, you name it. Pretty much everything is open game.
A girl I have known for the 2 years I have worked there is now pregnant. To say she is hormonally unstable is an understatement. We had, what I perceived to be a minor falling out. We spoke about it, I thought the issue was closed. However, afterwords, she would not speak to me, and went out of her way not to speak to me. I asked a mutual friend if it was related to me or other issues. Well, her baby shower came along and shockingly, she hadn’t offended everyone quite yet and it went off rather well, however, another friends feelings were hurt because the Hormonally Unstable Pregnant Girl (HUPG) never thanked her and was rather dismissive towards her afterwords. A week later, I get a very nasty voicemail from HUPG essentially telling me she wants nothing to do with me.
Okidoki. I comply. When asked, I tell folks I’m not discussing it. When told that THEY want to discuss it, I ask them not to include me, that my hands are washed of it. Yesterday, the dismissed friend had a talk with the mutual friend that I was not, and am still not privy to the discussion. I worked in a separate room from all of them. Had no interaction with them, worked my shift and went home. I did call the dismissed friend to find out what happened and she was busy and it was a bad time to talk, so I really know nothing.
Today, I get a call from HUPG who tells me that she couldn’t stop crying at work and had to fill out an incident report and that she wanted to work things out so that we could work together. I told her I was under the impression that is exactly what has been happening because I have refused to discuss it with anyone. That I don’t care what anyone says I am basing my actions in regards to her on her statements and behavior, nothing else, she is a big girl and can be friends with whoever she wants to be friends with and obviously, I am not a candidate. I have not said ANYTHING to her at work about this. I have not been anything other than professional when dealing with her, even when she has been less than professional.
I call my friend who is a supervisor if this incident is going to concern me. What she failed to mention to me is that the incident report is about ME. I was also told that I will be hauled in with the room manager or Human Resources to work this out because now it is an HR issue. WTH? He did say that me not even being there today counts in my favor.
What the hell do I do? I can’t have my job be at risk for an immature, hormonally unstable pregnant girl. This is insane. I have done what I am supposed to do. I have not even called this girl at home or attempted to have any contact with her whatsoever.
She told me she was going to try to get the incident report removed, but that kind of thing doesn’t happen.
What the heck should I do?