With the recent trend of blurring the differences between the genders (such as some Cracked articles, and also other sources making the case that men and women think much more similarly than previously believed,) I wanted to have a discussion thread about which ways men and women are indeed different vs. similar.
Just to throw out a few for discussion (although the thread by no means needs to be limited to these:
There is the perception that the two genders are different in terms of attraction; that men are primarily *visually *drawn to women’s outward appearance and body features, whereas women are attracted to men on the basis of less-visible inner characteristics such as success, confidence, wealth, personality, humor, etc;
There is the perception that women are more nuanced, subtle, complex and indirect than men, whereas men are more direct, simple and overt; and also that many men are attracted to submissive women whereas many women are attracted to dominant/leader-type men;
There is the perception that men have a higher sex drive and want to have sex with many different women, whereas women are much more choosy and selective in this regard;
There is the perception that, with regards to dating and relationships, that women tend to be more passive (in the sense of having men be the ones to initiate to them, rather than be the ones initiating to men), and that women much prefer to be asked out than to ask out, to be proposed to than to propose, etc.;
There is the perception that women seek consensus in a group when it comes to group decision-making, whereas men are more likely to argue it on the basis of their individual unilateral beliefs or opinions as to what is good or right;
There is the perception that men are more drawn towards technical trades or objects (aviation, mechanics, engineering, etc.) while women are more drawn towards relational or people-oriented fields (nursing, psychology, teaching, social studies, etc.);
There is the perception that men are more interested in martial or combat/action things (such as sports, firefighting, joining the military or police, or watching combat/war movies,) whereas women lean more towards less violent or action-paced things such as more ‘peaceful’ movie/fiction genres and activities.
And, of course, this is almost a genre unto itself (hard to believe *Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus *was written 20+ years ago). And then there are plenty of Internet articles contradicting each other hereand hereand hereand hereand hereand here and hereand here and here.