Well with that extensive experience I apologize for doubting your expertise in the romantic arts.
Take some advice from someone who has actually dated some women (including some white women, and even some blondes, the best kind of white!). Two things women hate are:
Guys who are creepy. Your posts aren’t talking about how you’re lonely, how you want to meet a girl with many positive attributes you can share a part of your life with, or even how you just have a thing for blondes. You’re objectifying white women as this weird forbidden fruit you’ve been denied.
Guys who are desperate and whiny. “It’s not my fault I can’t get laid,” you say, “It’s those big bad white men and their unjust pussy monopoly.”
I know that sounds harsh but it’s good advice. You have to learn to be a little cooler if you want the chicks to dig you.
probably most of us Indians don’t give a f*** about skin color, but there’s major white-skin obsession among many many people over here. Here’s a male face-whitener ad featuring Shahrukh Khan.
EDIT: also see the top comment on that video.
Um… I hope you plan on taking a little math while you’re at school. How do you plan on drawing conclusions on frequency and success rates when you have no null data points? According to the poll right now it’s at 100% with the lack of a “no” option.
Sounds like you’ve got all the answers.
The answer is yes, some women are open to interracial dating. No, not all women are. If you’re going after Georgia peaches, they may be racist and just aren’t attracted to you the same way you’re not attracted to black women. Other women - might not be the pageant queens - will be interested in you. You just have to be your regular social, charming self and see what you pull, if you do indeed pull.
I do think obsessing, quantifying (in the barest of interpretations), and codifying the process of courting interracialLY is unhealthy and counterproductive.
To properly meet girls you need validation. This can come in a lot of different ways. You need to convince a stranger that you are funny/smart/likable (if indeed you are) as well as being not creepy within the first 5 minutes. You can:
Have friends with you. Female friends are a plus. It means that you’re “cool” enough to have these “cool” friends and other females don’t think you’re creepy. Validated.
Be “charming as fuck”. It means you’re witty, funny, charismatic, and overall intelligent. This goes beyond just “So… what’s your major? What dorm did you live in? Where are you from?” But as a very social person, I’m sure you know all of this already.
Join a club. By being the part of the same club, you’re demonstrating a shared interest which is a built-in bond for you and the girl you’re hitting on. Don’t join a club for the sake of meeting girls. Dating is a 2-way street. You’re looking for validation as much as she is. Don’t put the pussy up on a pedastal. Just because a white girl is cute doesn’t mean you want to date her.
As a point of data, one of the Indian groom-white (brunette) bride couples I was talking about live in Atlanta, Georgia, although they are not originally from there.
You’re halfway there! Don’t give up! Before you know it, you’ll be into quadroons…then octaroons…then one of those crazy chicks that insists she’s 1/16full blooded Cherokee, and before you know it, you’ll be banging Swedish bikini models!
sigh
Does it sound to anyone else like he’s referring to breeds of dogs rather than romantic interests?
If you’re looking for non-racist, non-xenophobic white women, phrases like “PC police” won’t help you.
I live in Houston, Texas. In the South–but also a huge, cosmopolitan city. I knew an Indian gentleman married to a pale redheaded Irish lass–they’ve moved. And probably know other “mixed” couples but don’t really keep track.
Do you just want to “date” a blonde before settling down with a nice Indian girl? Really, the racial situation in your current location is not the only variable here…
using a blonde before I settle down with an Indian girl?
are you joking?
No my parents and MOST Indians do not believe in exclusively marrying Indians. If their son brought home a White wife the parents would be happy as hell.
I guess the Detroit area has a more conservative/traditional Indian Population. Out of the 35 I currently work with, whose families I have met not one has married non-Indian.
Working in IT I would say 80% of the Indians I know are H1Bs working toward green cards, or have their green cards. And nearly all of them have parental arranged marriages with other Indians. It’s actually a major concern of staffing our large projects as there are three or four folks who take three or 4 weeks off and meet and marry their spouse. I am still shocked at the number of second generation people who were born and schooled in America who go to India for their arranged marriages. After 13 I refused to let my parents even pick out my shirt
The only thing I can come up with is maybe other races of folks don’t find them attractive. Given the choice, majority of all Indian men would pick a White woman over an Indian woman, my parents have even told me this.
