Has she thought about asking him?
That was my ex, not the OP’s, sleepytime. Thankfully, I was already broken up with him before I heard about it. shudder If we’d still been seeing each other then…believe me, he’d have been dropped even faster than a hot potato. Definite issues, that one. Subscriptions, even.
And about asking him…even if he is gay, I doubt that asking would help. He’s obviously not ready to admit it if he is, and it’s unlikely that asking would making him crack.
I’m not sure why she’s asking us. The guy does seem to have any number of neurotic quirks. On the other hand, none of his described actions match the actions I would associate with guys I have known who were gay and, beyond that, now that he is gone, I haven’t figured out why anyone cares. Just some odd shmoe who is no longer bothering cgholycow and whose sexual orientation really won’t affect her or her friends.
::: shrug :::
Sorry about that…I thought OP standed for Original Poster…i am new.
And you are right, he does seem to have a couple of issues…he never went down to “visit the kitty” did he? So many problems…
Ah, Hildebrand. A guy aboard my ship when I was in the Navy. He’s about 5’6", and really had a big cock. He would flash it around, slap it against our bunks, and offer it up for admiration to antbody. He wasn’t gay, for sure, and was in most other ways totally normal. Actually, he was pretty cool.
Are you out there Hilly, you wierd fuck? I’m the sparky who came after your pecker with a Megger. 
Sorry, back to the shew.
No, you were right, OP does stand for original poster, sleepytimebaby; you just confused her post with mine, that’s all. Cgholycow is the OP, I’m not. I replied saying that my ex was pretty similar, and I think you took my reply for her elaborating on the first post, maybe?
mange that guy was a real sick pup! Men can be amused so easily! By big penises, breasts, etc. (Ok no more man bashing…I mean it all in jest; I love men, they are great!)
OH MY GOD…
was his name Dale?
Orange, I think you are right that the OP is still trying to come to terms with the break up. There were all sorts of issues there (I know both the OP and her ex).
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The thing is, she’s trying to understand her relationship. She didn’t know that the pitifully small amount of sex was not normal. When she asked her boyfriend about it, he assured her that they had a great sex life. The thing that shocked me when I found out about how little sex they were having, is that the ex boyfriend always acted like some uber-heterosexual male around groups of people. Always telling us what turned him on (he had a thing for lesbian porn), making overtly sexual comments about cgholycow and her friends, and dropping innuendos about their raging sex life. No one had any idea that they weren’t constantly all over each other.
See. I pulled that theory from out of nowhere and I turned out to be right! Ha! I’m a genius.
Would it be SO wrong to suggest that CGHolyCow could email me pictures of said derriere, so I could give her feedback as to whether or not I thought a very heterosexual male (such as myself) could find it obsess-worthy?
Even if I were polite enough to offer the same service to Orange Skinner??
– it would, huh? –
slinks back into polite lurking, letting the grownup adults talk
Well if ya ever find him with a dick in his ass… then you’ll know.
But seriously he just sounds really immature to me as well. That whole thing about the penis flashing just make him sound like a dumbfuck too.
I’ve never met anyone who is 21 and THAT immature – it sounds like he might have some issues…
Ahahahaha! Good one!
Only if he is gay, then “it” would be…
I don’t know if he is gay… but thank goodness you’re no longer together even if he’s not… many weird issues there.
F_X
Well, for what it’s worth (which is zilch), you’ve just accurately and completely described the relationship between one of my college friends and her then-boyfriend. To a T. Only in her case, they dated for three years. He came out one year after the breakup, and seemed much happier and well-adjusted from then on out.
Whether heterosexual, homosexual, or asexual, when it came to his relationship with you it sounds like he was, as my wife would say, “lacking in nervous energy.”
If he were gay, I don’t think he would want to be flashing his short comings to other guys
Thank you. I tell ya, sometimes I think I’m alone out here.