So you have sexual relations with a person of the unprotected kind for a set given peroid of time. You stop for about a month or two and resume said activites. This time you receive a gift…
Think of it like the sweater your grandma gives you at Christmas kinda gift. What do you do?
***Also included anyone who has been in one long term relationship when they suddenly receive their unwanted sweater
Yeah. I have a feeling the OP’s partner got the gift from a new friend. I’m not a retributive kind of guy but “hide the body” sounds like a good plan if it was the OP’s partner with the wandering eyes. (If it was the OP with the wandering eyes, maybe it’s the OP who needs to go hide.)
The post isn’t clear about who has a problem and the circumstances in which it was picked up. But if we’re talking about a possible STD, there’s only one answer.
Get tested. Inform the people you’ve been fucking that they should get tested. The end. You don’t want to have that stuff spreading around because you’re coyly dancing around the subject and calling it a “sweater”.
And if you caught something from a partner who’s been cheating on you, I would recommend ending the partnership, but that’s just me.
I’m going to second Antigen’s ire at this use of coy euphemisms. You’re old enough to be putting a penis into a vagina, you’re old enough to speak to the owners of said organs frankly about the fact that one of you has an STD, and take appropriate precautions.
Of course, there are other reasons for the burning. A yeast infection, small abbrasions from a vigorous session, etc. If it is indeed an STD, it could very well be manifesting noticable symptoms for the first time even though you’d actually acquired it quite a while ago.
There was no dancing around. I’m already taken care of. I just want to know what other people have done in this situation. As for me, I’m going to be ending the relationship. Before I end up with a “Sweater” I can’t take off if you catch my coy euphemism.
The person who gave it to me was unaware btw until I broke the news. This person is a habitual liar though so meh…