To the boy I played Laser Tag with this evening:
And yeah, you’re a boy. Be as buff and as brash and as crude and as violent as you like. You are not a man. Those things do not make you a man. You are a boy.
You ruined the game.
And yeah, we were playing a game.
We wanted to have fun. We wanted a good game in which we could enjoy ourselves and then laugh about the whole thing afterwards.
The establishment has the rule ‘don’t run in the maze’ for a reason. So when you are running around like a thing gone mad and everybody else is calmly walking, maybe lightly jogging and you barrell them into a wall - it is not their fault. It is your fault. Do not yell at them. You hurt people tonight and each time you did you spat it in their faces that it was their own fault.
When you are hurtling through the maze at top speed, it gives your teammates far less time to establish if the thing coming towards them is a team-thing or an enemy-thing. So sometimes, because the game relies on points-from-shooting and points-from-not-being-shot-at - your team just shoot. And they hit you and we lose points. Notice how when this happened to the other teams, they laughed and said ‘Sorry!’? Notice how it happened to you an AWFUL lot? Guess what, that’s not everybody else’s fault. If you don’t want to get shot by your own team, do not charge them at full speed with absolutely no warning. Everybody else got by fine by saying ‘Same team!’ just in time.
I do not appreciate being yelled at in-game because you can’t calm down and enjoy yourself.
I do not appreciate being yelled at after the game because we didn’t adhere to your manifesto of manliness.
I like Laser Tag. I enjoy it. I’m not super-good, but I don’t care. I like playing with my friends. We could have enjoyed the night, but you had to turn into a Festival-Of-Manliness.
Nobody else gave a fuck who won. Nobody else gave a fuck who shot them. Nobody else gave a fuck who had greater accuracy or effectiveness. Nobody else lived and died and swore at people with the hit-count. Nobody else snarled when shot. Nobody else thought the game was a worth-affirming test of ability.
But because you couldn’t stop yourself from giving a carefully chosen, fully functioning, lightly scented, gift-wrapped fuck to the occasion - Nobody else had fun.
We paid for some games, not for some battle missions. We did not want, need or ask you to ‘lead us’ so don’t bark orders at us like we’re your tin soldiers. We were trying to play a GAME.
Now, while we’re here - let’s take a little time to discuss the properties of the penis. Just the basics, nothing complicated, but things everyone should know.
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Your penis is firmly attached to your groin. It will not fall off you;
a) are beaten by a female
b) lose a game
c) laugh something off instead of avenging
yourself -
Your penis and your testicles are part of what makes you a male. This gives you the unique abilities of:
a)urinating while standing
b)reproducing without getting pregnant
c)other sundry sexual and/or reproductive bonuses. -
It does not make you more worthy than people without penises.
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The penis does not give the owner superpowers.
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The penis does not endow any rights not given to those not in possession of a penis.
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People without a penis do not automatically need or desire the protection and/or instructions from people who do possess a penis.
For the rest, ask your mother. Wait, no, that would be difficult for you to do, since you cannot fathom that women might have any knowledge of the world beyond hair and shopping. So ask your dad. No, wait, that’s wrong too. You can’t talk to your father about anything that doesn’t have a motor or a trigger. Hmm, I wonder how you managed to grow up so clueless?
You a sad and pathetic little boy. You are obsessed with violence and victory. It’s a fucking disgrace that you think your attitude makes you manly and cool.
PS: You don’t know anything about women. Stop presuming to. You are nearly 22. You have never had a girlfriend, you have never been kissed. You have barely been touched by any women, barring accidents and relatives. That’s fine, nothing really wrong with that in and of itself. But your total lack of experience with male-female relationships of any kind renders you less-than-the-best person to be attempting to make decisions on behalf of your perfectly capable little sister as to who she dates and how. So stop going on about how you’re going to beat up anyone who touches her without your permission. You’re pathetic.