it's over

A couple months ago, I started this thread about my troubles with my fiance. Well, since then our relationship has just stagnated. We’ve been arguing and fighting and bringing each other down. It got to be too much and today I ended it.

It hurts. I think it was right, but it hurts.

Yeah, I remember that. It does seem that this will turn out to have been the right thing to do. Not easy though! I hope you feel better soon.

That sucks, sorry

Sorry to hear your news. It is never an easy thing to do, even when you know it is right.

Sending supporting thoughts your way.

I’m so glad your are walking away, and so sorry that it has to hurt so much. The pain will lessen a bit each day. Nothing is more painful than a lifetime with the wrong person.

You have been very brave throughout, and I sense that you have had to make all the hard decisions. Take a deep breath and allow yourself to feel free from this problem.
{{{{{{{TJ}}}}}}}}

I’m sorry that you’re having such an icky time. That really does stink. It does sounds like that’s the right decision and you’ll eventually be much happier for it, but that doesn’t help much now, does it? I hope that both of you will heal and get stronger.

I remember your other thread well, and while I’m sorry it sucks so much right now, it really does seem like you’re doing the right thing here. My hope for you is that someday soon, you’ll look back at now and think, “Yes, that was hard, but man am I glad I did it!”

How did he take it? FWIW, I think you did the right thing.