That must be it then - I think James Carville is hot. 
VCNJ~
Oi, Gadarene, cheer up.
It definitely ain’t looks. Hell, people frequently tell me that I remind them of a young Wallace Shawn (Inconceivable!) and yet somehow I don’t run up against a lot of “Let’s be friends.”
So the bad news is that you’re still in the dark about what’s not working – but the good news is that whatever it is is liable to be easier to adjust than your physiognomy.
Be friends. When you’re well into that comfortable, no-bullshit friend zone, ask – but don’t be petulant about it or give any indication you’ll take it hard.
Then you’re set up for a proper G.I. Joe signoff.
Men and women are the same in that they will always want what they cannot have. If these women don’t want you, maybe it’s because they already know they can have you. Deprive them of that belief and you may see results.
Maybe the problem is that when you don’t get the response you expect, you reply by being insulting about something innocuous while ignoring all of the relevant comments? That would certainly make me want to stop dating you. 
…unless you’re not interested in ravaging. Some of us aren’t either, I’d much rather have sex than get ravaged any day of the week
If you’re interested in them, don’t be afraid to say so. A specific compliment is always much better than a generic one.
If you’re “you”, someday you’ll find a girl who likes “you”: don’t try to be someone else.