Julien Blanc's secret to attracting women: sexually assault them!

The BBQ Pit
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No, really. Picking up chicks is easy. Just grab their heads and shove them onto your dick.

I pretty much assumed the headline of this article was being hyperbolic, but now that I’ve seen the video (shot in Japan) it’s pretty clear this guy really is just A-OK with sexual assault and making tons of money off promoting it in his ‘female attraction’ seminars. The body language of the women in these videos ranges from ‘‘what the hell is this guy doing?’’ to ''what the everloving fuck is this guy doing?" to ‘‘oh, god, make it stop.’’

But apparently

[QUOTE=Julien Blanc]
If you’re a white male, you can do what you want.
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Don’t get me wrong. I sympathize with the shy/awkward men of the world who feel they could use some guidance on interacting with women (in fact, I have a long history of being attracted to shy guys.) But to hell with this piece of shit who is taking advantage of those men by promoting behaviors more likely to get them jailed than laid.

In the interest of fighting ignorance, here’s a pro-tip I won’t even charge you for: consent is motherfuckin’ sexy. If a woman cringes away from you when you touch her, she probably doesn’t want your dick on her face.

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Wow. He’s way out of line.

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I can happily say I never heard of this nut before now. Reading the article and his linked webpage makes it hard for me to believe he’s serious. Are we sure this isn’t performance art?

4

Yeah, this sounds like a Poe’s Law parody of what Western dudes expect when they travel to Japan, or of what some media outlets believe is what Western dudes travel there for. Damn this is a disturbingly weird world…

5

My Idiot Brother fully subscribes to the whole PUA bullshit. I’ve told him that maybe he should try attracting women by moving out of our dad’s house, finding a decent paying jobs and not being a Jewish religious fanatic but he prefers the whole sexist crap instead.

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He’s in the process of being hounded out of Melbourne as we speak - after activists started going to venues telling them what sort of person he was, he was getting kicked off bookings left and right. Good riddance.

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The asshole in question just left Australia with his tail between his legsafter a backlash against his crap.

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I’m guessing it was shot in Japan because of the “don’t make a scene” aspect of their culture. If someone does something bad, you’re supposed to ignore them, and that’s supposed to shame them.

It’s the reason it’s been really hard to get women to report groping on the trains.

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Why would anyone pay money to see this jackass?

Also, the moment anyone describes anyone or themselves as “alpha” I automatically lose all respect.

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Please tell me he often attempts to pick up shiksas.

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Holy shit, I never even touched the webpage. :eek:

[QUOTE=sexual assailant]
After about 4-6 months,I went to a bar after collecting all these reference experiences. Did some routines on a girl I knew of, boom fucked her
I felt like this was real for the first time
One week later, fucked my second girl. She had a boyfriend
From that moment on I decided to really take it to THE NEXT LEVEL.
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(bolding Julien’s)

[QUOTE=sexual assailant]
I give you my LMR [Last Minute Resistance]-Shattering Techniques that increase your chances of sleeping with her (she may just need a couple more things from you, and I tell you exactly what those are)
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[QUOTE=sexual assailant]
To help her that last extra step, she might need you to get her emotions going again (by changing her mood, not her mind), and I share with you EXACTLY how it’s done
My personal favorite “go-to” lines I say to bring her back from her logical mind, and into an emotional state
The CRAZY Sexual things you can get a girl to do once she’s in the trance of sex. You’ll love this if you have any fetishes
How to pull a camera on her if you’re into that kind of thing
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[QUOTE=sexual assailant]
A Cheat Sheet To Maximize Your Chances To Pull Every Night. I call it Tempo of the Night, and it will give you the best strategies to end up with a girl at the end of the night, depending on where her emotions are, and I reveal the techniques that her NEED TO BE FUCKED, or if she needs you to pump her up like I’ll show you inside the course
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[QUOTE=testimonial]
Julien sometimes insults girls to a point where they are genuinely offended… but he then apologizes and brings her back on his side, all the while taking her on a full emotional roller coaster.
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[QUOTE=sexual assailant]
I don’t go dramatic on girls at all, I “provoke”
EXTREMELY HIGH AND ADDICTIVE EMOTIONS
in them, which gets them hooked to me for a
good chunk of their fertile years
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And what extremely potent emotions would those be, Julien? I’m going with disgust, loathing, and possibly terror.

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The PIMP package starts at $197. (It is really called that.)

Your comment about ‘‘alpha males’’ actually made me think of a beautiful Ask Polly advice column I saw recently, in which a woman straight-facedly referred to her husband as a ‘‘beta’’ male.

[QUOTE=Frustrated HouseWife]
But this guy isn’t bad. He’s a really nice guy! He works full-time, he’s nice to my kid, he always does whatever I want (ugh). Should I just resign myself to this life? Man up to being the man in the relationship? Because it is my fault I’m in this pickle, he hasn’t changed a bit. I liked that he was soft and gentle before, but now I’m annoyed that he’s girly and non-confident.
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It was a pretty epic smack-down.

[QUOTE=Polly]
But look, your husband works full-time, he’s good to your kid, he always wants to please you, and instead of just making him a list of repairs that need to be done, or telling him he’s in charge of the vacuuming from now on, or that you want him to dominate you in the sack, you’re characterizing him as “girly” and “beta” and “non-confident”?

FUCK THAT NOISE. What’s more confident than taking on someone’s kid wholeheartedly? I can tell you from personal experience that’s not a small thing emotionally.

Do you want your husband to be a bossy cartoon of fuck-daddy machismo, or do you want him to be a human being who can show up and be himself and give you his absolute best?

Because I’m guessing you haven’t seen his best yet. I’m guessing you’re not yet committed to letting him show you that HE really loves you, and what he wants and has to give. The second you let go of this elaborate dehumanizing fantasy of being led and kept safe and taken care of, that’s when you’ll see what a strong, capable man he actually is.

Etc.

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I know it’s probably wasted breath, but for any PUA enthusiasts who happen to be reading this, being in a relationship where you are completely and honestly loved and seen for who you are, where you do not feel like you are playing some kind of exhausting game or adhering to some cartoon stereotype in an effort to be wanted… it’s worth a thousand rejections and a thousand lonely nights. What this man is selling will not get you there.

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Don’t any of those women have teeth? Or was he just afraid to unzip first?

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I can’t speak for the women in question, but personally I’d be scared shitless to do something like that to someone twice my size who already has demonstrated he has zero respect for me as a human being. In his own sick way he is absolutely correct when he says he can do what he wants.

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sigh :frowning:

I know I’m aging myself, but whatever become of Eric Weber and his “be nice” and “say anything” method of picking up girls? I’ll bet it still works better than this assaultive horseshit!

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Ha. Ha. Ha. Ha.

Little bro still has objections to my twenty year marriage to a goy. He’s not shy or awkward or even all that sweet. He’s just a lazy, stupid, arrogant forty year old ass who wants a grown woman even though he’s still fifteen mentally and emotionally.

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Based on experience with a certain kind of guys, I suspect an actual grown woman would have him running for the hills. There were a surprising amount of idiots who’d try to hit on us when they thought we were 18 and do like Usain Bolt when they found out we were 28.

Cue Loquillo in his early 30s, translation mine:
At eighteen they can go all the way,
once past thirty they’ve learned to wait.

ETA: I think I’m in love with Polly. Hope her husband won’t mind.

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When I told my husband about Julien Blanc, he said, ''Any man who considers himself a part of the Pick-Up Artist movement is a complete and unequivocal tool." It led to an argument, because I have some sympathy for ostensibly nice guys who get caught up in this stuff.

But then there are sleazebags like Blanc, and these ‘‘nice guys’’ are fooling themselves if they think he isn’t pushing their emotional buttons just as much as he is for the ladies. He’s already proven himself to be a manipulative asshole, but it seems he’s most adept at manipulating these lost boys into the belief that women have magic sex buttons and that once they can get laid all the time, they will truly respect themselves and be happy. It’s really essentially no different than the game marketers play with women - lose weight, be sexy, be happy! Wear makeup, be sexy, be happy! Buy a swiffer! Happy!

Usually I can dismiss it out of hand, but I think this guy is genuinely dangerous. He’s not only committing sexual assault, he’s encouraging his minions to also commit sexual assault and normalizing all of this by calling it ‘‘alpha male’’ behavior. And it’s totally okay because he’s laughing and he’s just kidding you guys!!! Happy!

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You’re missing the beauty of the Julien Blanc method. It’s more effective in getting women because it removes consent as an obstacle. No longer does a lonely man need any social skills or attributes. Picking up a woman is now as easy as being able to physically pick up a woman and holding her until she stops struggling. So get out there and happy hunting, you white males.

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Someone actually tried to do something similar to this to me once in college. I punched him in the gut as he was bending me over.

He never did it again, and we actually became, if not friends, at least friendly acquaintances. One of his hallmates said I was the only woman he’d tried that with who had stopped him.

I’d have been angrier (and inclined to report him to his RA), except I knew he had some behavioral difficulties that resulted from head trauma suffered in an accident.