Ok, maybe it is not the 968th thread but there have been a few.
K is going on a trip to see some family this week. Last night at work I got an IM from her asking me to come over after work.
So I headed on over. When I got there she said she wanted to go for a walk. It was a nice night out so we went for a walk. We went by a park, hung out on the swings for a bit and basically ramlbed around. We picked up some fliers from houses that were for sale, I am starting to look for a place.
Then she asked, and this is a paraphrase, ‘So, where do you want to be in 5 years’. I talked a bit about what I want, a house, boat, finished with my degree off developing software somewhere, and being with someone. She asked if I wanted to be married. I said that I would like that but it wouldn’t have to happen, living together could work*. She asked if I wanted kids. I told her that I am not sure about that. I told her that the idea of having a kid is very appealing yet terrifiying at the same time. We talked about that for a while and somewhere in there she mentioned briefly living together. It was a quick ‘Well, if we ever lived together…’ kind of thing. I wish I remember exactly what she said, sadly my memory kind of sucks. I was fairly suprised that it was mentioned.
Then she talked a bit about her ex and why she left him. Part of it was that he is one of those guys who doesn’t have much motivation to do anything other than st on the couch.
We rambled around for a little longer then went back to her place. A couple sessions and a shower. I spent the night. I really like to sleep with her (I mean the actual sleeping, not the sex though that rocks as well). This morning was another romp then a shower. She made breakfast then I headed off to work really tired because I was working on about 5 hours sleep. When I was getting dressed she mentioned that I need to bring over some clothes and leave them there so that I wouldn’t have to head home the next time I stayed over.
She headed out on her trip and I went to work. Work was rough, it was my Friday and I was a bit spent in that tired yet happy state that having a lot of great sex will induce.
So now the question becomes, is she really thinking serious or not. I still can’t figure that out. She sometimes gives signs, like our discussion about the future, that she is thinking about getting serious. I really dig this woman. She is smart, quite sexy, a blast in bed and I really really dig her. Other times she does the friends bit. Lately the friends bit is not coming up very much bit it is still there.
I could easily fall for this woman. I’m right on the edge actually. I need to talk to her about where she wants this to go but I don’t want to get too serious on her too fast. Ack. This whole relationship thing is more complex than I remember.
Slee