Lady Dopers, of the men that you have been with that have enjoyed anal sex, have those men been more homophobic or less so?
I’m trying to figure out if people that are grossed out by the idea of gay sex are more bothered by the anal aspect or the the fact that it is men.
I can’t really say as I wouldn’t date anyone who was even remotely homophobic.
I hadn’t thought of that; me either.
I don’t think there’s a connection. My impression is that most men love the idea of anal sex because it’s a “tighter” orifice. Some women like it, some don’t.
That, definitely, plus I think a lot of guys also like it because it’s got a forbidden nature to it. Probably some women like it for that reason as well.
If a Mod pops by, can you correct the spelling in the thread title? Thanks.
I knew a guy who wouldn’t have anal sex with his wife specifically because he thought anal sex was gay, and she enjoyed anal sex.