For the record, I am a man. I was at lunch the other day, politely minding my own business. But not too far away, two guys were having a conversation. One of them asked the other one, “What do women want?” Then they discussed it. One said, “lot’s of stuff, like jewelry”. The other one said “Yeah, it doesn’t make much difference as long as you spend money on her”. It went on like that for a few more minutes until they changed the subject.
I got to thinking about all that they said, and I just think they were totally wrong.
It seems to me that women don’t really want “stuff”. I believe that, first and foremost, they would really rather be treated with the respect and dignity that they deserve. Plus they should NOT be treated as though they were some kind of an object or a conquest. I also believe that they should be treated as if they actually had a brain and were capable of using it.
Gifts are perfectly fine and appropriate once in awhile. I don’t have a problem giving gifts to a woman, but I don’t believe they should be used as a way to her heart.
So women, am I wrong?