Never got any. I’d like to try it some time, but can’t get over the idea that “guys just don’t get the notion of just-for-fucking, no matter how much they say they do”. I know, it’s not necessarily the right idea and each person’s a different universe, I just am not interested enough to go hunting.
So you’ve noticed that too, eh? Annoying, innit? 
(Actually, what I’ve discovered is that they can’t believe that I get the notion.)
I guess not. Expressing myself is distracting and causes me to lose the groove.
On preview, Larry Mudd’s description of ‘stillness’ during intense moments is right on. Probably a result of too much solo practice
I enjoy it, though I can’t/haven’t yet orgasmed from it. However, every once in a while my SO really likes to give, and I’m more than happy to go along with it. I am also more than happy to reciprocate, so all is equal in the oral department, except that he gets off from it.
I could live without it, really, but it’s an occasional fun thing.