Thankfully, my little love does not get oversensitive at all after orgasm, and this allows me to take her into the 10+ multiple zone. I think our record is 15 in a row, after which we were both kinda tired, and had to rest an hour before continuing to our daily record of 52 or so.
Diane - perhaps part of the unexpected strength your orgasm was a response to being tied by someone you trust, but I imagine you’ve had time since then to try it tied and untied, so…
“To go into a little more detail ::::, I used to push my husband (now my ex) away after I
came hard because my body felt like it couldn’t take it anymore.”
I had a lesbian do that once cause she didn’t want to have multiple orgasms with a man.
sailor, I agree completely. The head gets hyper-sensative and you will do anything to make sure nothing touches it!
One time I remember experimenting strange positions with an old SO and out of nowhere she “bucks” me off with a yelp… what did she say? “That felt so good…” My question: why the hell did you make me stop?!?
Oh my love, when we meet again soon I’m going to make love to you until you don’t know which way is up, what time it is, or even that anything else exists. And that’s just in the first afternoon. Then we’ll have some din-din, and afterwards start the real lovemaking…
[sub]Have you been doing your special exercises? ;)[/sub]
Special exercises? My God! Straight men are already behind the curve sexually to lesbians, now they are innovating new stuff? I gotta get the boys down in the lab on this pronto. As General “Buck” Turgidson would say, “Mr. President, we must not allow a orgasm gap!”
Diane, I thank you, and my husband thanks you. I had always pushed him away after the first time because I would get so hyper-sentitive that I just couldn’t take it anymore. Last night, I told him to just let me rest a minute, then try again very slowly. It was quite pleasureable Thanks for the advice.
I didn’t know I wasn’t the only one who couldn’t stand to be touched immediately afterwards. And the fight against ignorance wins another battle.
As has been said by others, I don’t really know how to describe it, only that on those occasions when Mr Bear didn’t stop and move away fast enough, I got…well…perhaps a bit violent in getting my point across. Figured I was just weird and multiple orgasms were not for me. Wonder why ‘psychic’ orgasms are so different?
I’m going to rethink that, and perhaps hubby would be willing to try Diane’s suggestions. Only I think I’ll need a minute or so before he tries again. Even normal air passage across that part hurts for a few seconds. :eek:
Oh, and bughunter, I understand why she gets like that. You become so sensitive that the lightest touch causes an excruciating pain/pleasure/tickle; and your body needs time to come down from such an intense overload.
::going off to daydream about the possibilities::
[sub]I can’t believe I’m really going to post this![/sub]
Yes, that USED to work. Then she figger’d out how to do what I believe are called “Kegels”. They’re fantastic during, but too much immediately after. That little minx will actually sometimes give a quick squeeze just to watch my whole body jump.
But for what the OP is talking about, Diane has it right: I’ve learned that “Stop” can actually mean “Gimme a sec to recover.” So I don’t really take my tongue away, I just slow it waaay down, to where it’s no longer ‘vigorous stroking’, but rather ‘gentle caressing’. Generally just a minute of two of this will bring back the sounds of encouragement. Then I slowly work my way back up to what I was doing when the fireworks went off.
But here’s curiosity I’ve wondered about: Do any women experience this after a vaginal orgasm?
A brief respite is sometimes required. If it’s just me, I’ll tend to ease up before the over-stimulation phase; with someone else, I’ve found that if I ignore the feeling to say “Please Stop”, things can get very interesting. For me, if I can count how many orgasms I’ve had, it wasn’t that memorable. Sometimes I can’t tell where one starts and the next begins anyway. Almost always this is a good thing, but it can be a little overwhelming sometimes.
I think kegels have helped both the quality and quantity. :squeeze…squeeze…squeeze:
This happened to me, just once. I was having sex, and after I came, my entire body was mindbogglingly, painfully sensitive everywhere. From time to time my penis stays really sensitive after orgasm so that I need to get him to stop touching it until my erection subsides, but not very often.
Diane, I tried this with lady bug last nite… well, I didn’t tie her up, but I talked her into continuing after her first shivering orgasm. It only took about a minute of gentle oral stimulation and she went off like she’d been electrocuted. I mean, before she’d buck a few times and push me off and then make a couple convulsive jerks. But this time she launched me off of her with a shriek, rolled over, and convulsed continuously for a good 30 seconds.
And witnessing this filled me with lust. Just remembering it makes me want to rush home to her. But I’d be embarrased to walk through the office to the door!
(BTW, she thinks I’m completely nuts to be talking about this with total strangers. But she’s not disputing the benefits! I got a look of pure, concentrated lust from her when I was leaving for work… she loves to do that… make me think of her all day long.)
I know, I get the same way, although in my case I trained myself to take advantage of it, to enjoy it. lady bug can get some full body shivers out of me, too, if she keeps stimulating the very tip of me after I climax. It’s nice, but it’s not an orgasm. It’s more like those “pee-gasms.”
I, too, have been part of the “Oh, God, no more!” crowd. Fortunately, I’ve never had to get violent with anyone to get my point across. And I don’t always feel this way after orgasm, just sometimes. Occasionally, a little recovery period is in order.
Now this just goes for oral sex, but right as I begin to come, I like my lover to freeze and just hold his tongue gently but firmly against my clit while I go off. Actually, if he doesn’t do this, I feel sort of abandoned. Then, maybe, after a half minute or so, he can start again . . . that works really well. And I don’t usually get that hypersensitive feeling if he does it that way.