About 30 minutes ago, lady bug had an orgasm that curled her up into a fetal position and she threatened me with my life if I touched her again. Not that she wasn’t having a good time… she was quivering like my old 1972 Volvo 144 dieseling on unleaded gasoline after I turned the ignition off. (That’s not uncommon, and it’s just one of the myriad reasons why I adore her.)
I just don’t get it… is it painful? She won’t say, other than she’s “had enough.” That’s her explanation. But I’m boggled. As a male, I’ve never been in a condition when I didn’t want more… only problem is that damn refractory period.
Which is just about up. Gotta go. Best Saturday morning in months! No jobs, no kids, no responsibilities… the whole day is free! Woo hoo!
And oh, yea. I want one of those orgasms… I feel deprived.
You just need to show her the wonders of multiple orgasms. Don’t stop touching her, just slow down and lighten up on your touch - A LOT. Another one (probably even better than the first) will soon build up.
When I’m like that, it’s usually because I’m over stimulated. Any further touches will either send me into a fit of uncontrolled giggles or start my feet swinging. It’s as though no matter how light the touches/licks/kisses, wahtever are, they almost become painful and very ticklish at the same time. Plus, touching me then will only mess with my endorphine buzz because I’ll be trying to fend you off.
The only thing I think it would be close to is if you had gotten a very good blowjob, the kind that leaves you slightly numb, and just after you ejaculated she started sucking again immediately. YMMV but I’ve been pushed away with the “I’ve had enough” phrase when I’ve done that.
Yep, definitely overstimulation. Kinda like with a cat. You know, when they’re just purring like crazy and suddenly bite.
Carnie will stroke my hair and shoulders and whisper sweet nothings while I recover and then we can move on to round 3. Or 4. Or… well, you get the idea.
Give yourself a pat on the back buddy, you just threw the poor girl into extreme sensory overload where anything more would be too much.
Funny, some people smoke after sex (although I have never looked) and others post to message boards. I would think you are missing some great cuddling time here.
Besides foreplay there is also afterplay which can always lead to more foreplay… it’s a pleasantly vicious cycle.
lady bug is actually snoozing… make that snoring… she works late and so is catching up on her sleep. I don’t need much downtime, and had to get up cause I was restless. I tried to wake her up for a replay a few minutes ago but she’d have none of it. I had to let her sleep cause she looks like an angel when she’s in dreamland… [sigh]
I guess I’ll have to wait for a nooner to see if I can make her diesel again.
Haw! That makes more sense to me than anything else I’ve been told! LOL!
yes, it can get ouchie.
i ALWAYS need time out, but thankfully only a couple of minutes. i do like being held while i come down though… no hanky panky though…or he gets punched.
Mrs. Tranq gets that way. Too much stimulation, and she just wants to lie there and enjoy the buzz. At that point, anything that touches her makes her jump like an electric shock. Actually, it happens most often after oral sex. She’ll change from pressing me in to grabbing my hair and pulling me away. If I resist being pulled away for just a couple of seconds, she’ll come like a volcano, but then she’s got to be left alone to recover for a few. If I cuddle her too long after, she falls asleep on my arm and I can never get it back. I’ve found that rubbing her down with a steamy-hot towel afterwards makes her really happy, and inclined to a rematch rather than sleeping.
Believe it or not, not every female likes multiples. For instance, me. I find after a first, intense orgasm that any further stimulation is just this side of painful. It takes me awhile (at least an hour) before I’m ready for another.
I am a guy and just after I orgasm the tip of my penis is just so sensitive I cannot bear any stimulation. This is not a problem during vaginal intercourse (as I just stop) but during oral intercourse, if she tries to continue I have to withdraw now! That is why the correct technique is to reach oregasm and slowly wind the stimulation down to where your mouth is just there, no movement. I love to do that. Give her an orgasm with my tongue but then remain there without moving…
I remember one time, an ex-girlfriend asked me to stop after her orgasm because she said she was going to pass out. I didn’t stop, I just slowed down a bit and she came again, really violently, and had to climb off of me before she did pass out. I grabbed her by the leg and screamed, “Tell me about the Jade Monkey!” She dragged me around the bedroom saying, “Let go of me, you psycho!”
bughunter, guys are like that too, often their pee pee gets real sensitive after orgasm & they don’t want it touched. See, there is a huge blood flow, not unlike the great flood, which causes places to become very sensitive. If you still want more maybe you can get another lady to join in?
Personal experience here: I’ve given DeathLlama a few involuntary slugs and slaps that were essentially reflexes to being overstimulated. (Fortunately, all of these mindless hits were to his body, not face!)
It’s just that after a mind-blowing orgasm, the clit is beyond sensitive. I wouldn’t quite call it a tickle, and it isn’t painful–just something else of its own. From what I understand, the head of the penis can get like this, too, after ejaculation.
I guess this goes to show that every woman is different.
To go into a little more detail ::::, I used to push my husband (now my ex) away after I came hard because my body felt like it couldn’t take it anymore. That not a tickle/not painful, just untouchable feeling that has already been mentioned as well as my entire body feeling like jello.
One night he tied me to the bedpost with my silk bathrobe tie and proceeded to put me into the twighlight zone with an earth shattering orgasm. However this time I was not able to push him away and he continued, although very lightly and not in direct contact with my clit at first. For a few seconds it was a little uncomfortable but then I had a second orgasm that rolled my eyes in their sockets and put me into convulsions.
Until that time I was not aware of just how hard I could come. I had always stopped any contact as soon as I came the first time, but that experience showed me that a VERY few seconds of being uncomfortable was well worth one or two or five mind blowing orgasms that can follow. I’ve also had more than a few years since that first time to perfect my technique.
I’m sorry, but reading this made me laugh so hard. I’m in the livingroom and I almost fell to the floor laughing, and I didn’t really want to explain to the rest of the family what was so funny.
I’ll just say that from personal experience, you get so sensitive that it almost does hurt, but I am gonna have to try Diane’s experience and see what that does.
::, I used to push my husband (now my ex) away after I came hard because my body felt like it couldn’t take it anymore. That not a tickle/not painful, just untouchable feeling that has already been mentioned as well as my entire body feeling like jello.
