I’ve read in several places that while women want stimulation to continue all the way through orgasm, men want it to end just as they reach orgasm. To me, the latter technique is complete and utter torture. I want stimulation all through orgasm and out on the other side, and continuing for a couple of minutes afterwards if possible. If stimulation stops, the orgasm kind of stops too, replaced with a sort of hard-to-describe but extremely acute painlike sensation, and the panicky urge to finish the job in whatever way presents itself.
I can understand stimulation during orgasm, but isn’t it painful once it’s over? For me it is anyway. Once it’s done, it’s done for at least 5 minutes.
I personally think it intensifies the sensation. Of course, it can get so intense that I feel like I’m going to pass out from oversimulation (sorta like getting tickled to death or something). If I’m in a spry mood (i.e. alone ) I can stimulate myself right through three consecutive orgasims. Not quite like female ‘multiple orgasms’, more like three separate ones over 20 minutes.
Unfortunately I only seem to get this boundless virility when I’m by myself. Ironically, when I’m with someone else, it suddenly becomes difficult to get aroused in the first place. Its very frustrating! :mad:
For me, too much (manual) stimulation of the glans during late orgasm is doesn’t feel good – way too sensitive, almost an electric shock quality. All other stimulation is cool.
Like I can go without sugar in my tea, yeah. I will have an orgasm without stimulation during but it’s nowhere near as good and sometimes quite an anti-climax.
So, if I’m giving my guy a bj and I switch over to hand job as he’s coming, I usually keep rubbing it until he’s gotten it all out. He seems to like it, and he’s never said it was too sensitive. I don’t keep going after he’s done, but to stop as soon as he starts to shoot seems like it would kinda kill the orgasm.
As for sex, I don’t know, he keeps going until he’s done. It’s hard to tell when exactly that is. I can feel it pulsating, but that usually continues for awhile after he’s gotten off.
All the way through, all the way to the very end, stimulate away! But afterwards, don’t touch it. Don’t even look at it. Pretend it’s not there. It’s hypersensitive and just needs to rest a minute or so.
Ok, you can touch it. But gently and slowly.
Oddly enough, this doesn’t apply when it’s just me, so it is probably connected to the tickle reflex.
I usually keep going for about 1 to 2 minutes after orgasm, though not as fast.
The onyl stimulation that really “hurts” during and after orgasm is that of the head of the penis, which is why I pull out if the girl is particularly tight or isn’t quite as wet as usual. The added friction can make an orgasm fairly painful.
Before (obviously), during, after, and onwards to the next one, but I like things to slow down and get gentle for a bit before returning to frisky-mode. I can’t compete with the records set by some of the girls, but I’ve done three on several occasions.
) I can stimulate myself right through three consecutive orgasims. Not quite like female ‘multiple orgasms’, more like three separate ones over 20 minutes.