I met up with some friends for after-Thanksgiving cheer, and after several rounds two of the women in the group started talking sex, and things got frank quickly. Somehow things got on the subject of Threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes, and I was surprised when the two women - and a third who wasn’t really tight with our group, but was in the bottle by then - started talking about how getting DP’ed was analogous to the standard guy fantasy of “two chicks at the same time.” I countered that this was more of an artifact of hetero male-oriented porn, and that most women didn’t share the fantasy and that most of the ones that did were probably only doing so or saying so in order to have an analogous “the ultimate” bedroom fantasy. They insisted that most of their girlfriends felt the same way, but that women “don’t talk about it like guys do.”
Ladies, what’s the dope on this one? I don’t really buy it.
However, there is an erotica writer’s site I visit now and then which has forums on assorted related topics, and this one does crop up with some frequency in the “female fantasies” section. (most often in the form of a 3-some involving oral penetration along with “other”)
But judging by the “male fantasies” section, it is much more common among men. (meaning, the 3-some with their woman and another man and associated “DP”)
Does being a human Chinese fingertrap count? If so, sign me up!
I think one in the vag and one in the ass is something that works better as a fantasy than reality. So yes, as a fantasy that I don’t necessarily want to make reality, at least not in this iteration of it.
It’s an okay fantasy, possibly something to be played with involving toys/fingers and one partner, but actually playing out your own little bow chika wow wow scenario? Uh, no.
I’ve known two women who were really into it, or at least a variation. Not two men, but they both liked a penis in one orifice and a good-sized vibrator in the other. So either I know weird women or it’s more common than you think.
yes, I have gone to DP land more than once, and I’m not sure it was the ULTIMATE…
but I would happily go there again, given two consenting partners *
I enjoyed that very much indeed
oh yeah, both as a sandwich and with one gentleman on either end of me
they seemed to enjoy it too
*unfortunately, straight guys seem to be scared to have erections in front of other guys :smack: why’s that?
