Ladies, what does it mean for a man to know "how to use his penis"?

Hi :slight_smile:

I’ve even been to Toronto. You have that really big …what do you guys call it? It’s goes way up and it spins… :wink:

Guys- I don’t have a vagina, but there’s still some things I’d like to point out that I’ve learned over the years. You don’t need to do doggy style to hit the top of her vagina (Gspotville). Just bend one or both legs up, which curves her pelvis and makes it stick out. Lean back and angle upwards. Thirdly, try ‘bouncing’ her up and down so the TOP of your penis is hitting her spot, not just the front. This has the added effect (benefit?) of dumbing down your pleasure which makes you last longer. Speaking of lasting longer, try aiming for different sides of her vagina. If you’re focused on the top, then the nerves on the bottom have had time to rest and come back to life. She’ll come quicker that way. I don’t know if it’s better though.

Girls- Have a little patience and understanding w/ the stoppers. There’s several reasons this could be happening. 1) He’s trying to last longer. Go ahead, rip on him for that if you want to stomp his self-esteem. 2) The sheets are slippery. Hey, sometimes the complicated positions you require take some mad balancing acts. It’s not easy balancing you on a knee while trying to bend over backwards, all while keeping those plates spinning. 3) He’s freakin’ tired. If it annoys you that much, roll over and take the reins yourself. Let him just lay there while you do all the work.

I’ve said my peace.

“What do you want?” “Whatever you want” “Not that!”

And there’s not one but two large round sports venues at its base! (Okay, one is over by the train station and is in a square building, but the other one is under a dome that pivots and goes back and forth! :smiley: )

I never said it didn’t backfire on occasion. That said, I guarantee that it never happens with me; don’t ask me what I want unless you really truly want me to tell you, with accompanying humorous gestures and offers to show you.

takes notes So ShibbOleth, about that lab partner… :wink:

Look. All of your questions (and several others) will be thoroughly answered in this informative nine minute video.

I implore you to watch it…helps to smoke some grass before watching it actually.

That and, “I’ll let you know if you do something wrong.” Not an answer to the question that was asked.

Seriously, I’ve asked the question a jillion times and have not received straightforward answers very often. Of course, I’m older and maybe women weren’t so liberated when I was young enough to actually have occasion to ask. Then again, I suppose any answer beats “More than you can give me;” that stung.

Well…THAT was interesting! I wish I had had some weed, actually. :smiley:

Her essential message is correct, IMO-choose your sex partners carefully.
Re the thread. I am like ** erie774’s** wife. No toy will feel as good as an actual penis. I second (third?) what WhyNot said. But I’d add (for me, can’t speak for others) don’t underestimate the “priming of the pump.” “Foreplay*” (hate that word) can take all day–and probably should. Sure there’s times that a quickie suffices, but to build up anticipation? That’s a huge payoff me for me. YMMV.
*meaning flirting, suggestive moves etc. Not Masters and Johnson’s version…

If your equipment is the right size/shape, you don’t have to do doggy style or hike her legs up over your shoulders (though there’s nothing wrong with that). If a guy’s erection points almost straight up at his navel, that’s a good start, and will hit most women’s g-spot in ANY position, because of this up-standing demeanor (I am in possession of said appendage, in said configuration, and my partners have all made note of it - especially when they are on top).

true. (female)

Fine for you youngsters, but for some of us, the only way we can get our penises to point at our navels is by using gravity boots!
“Automatic systems failing, Captain!”

“Switching to manual.”

Most guys, maybe. My husband makes me work for it!

Yeah, smoke some grass before you watch it. Much better than dropping x first. Now I just want to overcome my penis power before I hurt someone. :frowning:

Turn that frown upside down! We ain’t afraid of that. :wink: