Mmm, Bob. As you can see although he has got a rockin’ 6-pack he is not ripped “to the max” and particularly his arms are not overworked with creepy giant biceps. I have no idea where the myth comes from that women like giant biceps.
But why for the love of all that is holy does everyone show us their underwear now? I don’t want to see your underwear! Even if you’re a sexy man. Really, not even then.
It bothers me that men in this thread keep refering to #11 as skinny. He is muscular and lean.
For skinny and non-muscular, see Topher Grace and Zach Braff.
It really should not be a surprise that women like lean and muscular physiques. Take a gander at these guys, who are all dreamboats: David Beckham Oded Fehr and Brad Pitt
If you can get a physique like these guys, I predict success with the ladies.
Bonus photo: classic Indiana Jones
Okay, how about this? Mike Holmes from the tv reno show “Holmes on Homes”. He’s a big boy, but he’s worked at construction since forever - I don’t think his muscles come from a gym. He’s not normally my type, but he can build a house for you from top to bottom - how sexy is that?
Building me a home? Très sexy. His body? Well, I wouldn’t turn him down, but he’s not my ideal. I like lots of things that aren’t my ideal. I prefer him to any of the guys in the OP (except #11). One set of shoulders? Check. Traps that don’t exceed his abdominal silhouette? Check. Can lower arms all the way to the side of his body? Check. Strong like bull? Most likely.
I think it’s part of the schism between the sexes. Kinda like how a lot of women bemoan their “fat” hips and thighs where guys just think it looks curvy.
Huh. it makes sense that it’s all the same guy 'cause I didn’t see a huge difference between pics 5-9. He’s at 8 to 10% bodyfat in all those pictures which is pretty lean for a guy. I think a lot of women are turned off by the oiling up and the posing which is why they like #7 which looks a lot more natural in jeans. That’s also part of the appeal of #11, he’s just hanging out and not posing.
If the guy in the examples was just standing normally and not trying to pose, he’d look a lot like Bob the trainer. The arms away from the body stance doesn’t mean he can’t lower his arms, he’s actually working at flaring out his lats to make his back look wider and tensing the muscles in his arms to emphasize them.
Well, it doesn’t mean that guy there can’t, but I’ve known guys about that size and shape who can’t, and it looks dumb. I had a roommate once who also couldn’t lift his arms straight up over his head - we were drywalling the ceiling once, and while he could lift whole sheets of drywall up over his head, he couldn’t lift them into place - his arms wouldn’t straighten because his shoulders were in the way. Ucky.
I’m a straight male, so I don’t really have a vote in the “yummy boy” poll. But I’d like to add my 2 pennies, FWIW:
The OP’er seems to already have this figured out, but it’s not a good idea to work out based on how someone else will react, if you intend to make it a successful habit. Exercise is a personal thing, and you’ll hopefully do it because of the endorphin rush, sense of accomplishment, et al. Doing it just for the vanity of having someone else notice you rarely produces lasting results.
OK…I’ll stop ranting now and let more ladies tell us which guy they want to rub up against.
Well, number 11 is skinny. “Lean” is a synonym for “not having much body fat” ergo, “skinny”. He’s in shape from athletic activities, and that’s pretty apparent.
This comes from a skinny guy, too.
You know, that guy wouldn’t be half bad if you just got rid of those weird muscles (his lats?) that you can see on his sides, the ones that sort of disappear into his armpits? If you could just Photoshop those out and make his arms hang naturally, I bet more people would vote for him.
My preference would probably be 2 - I don’t like really muscular hardbodies, and I really dislike huge muscle-bound forms. I like a proportional, not too fat/not too skinny body on a man - that is, if I’m choosing a partner. For the record, my husband is more like #1, and his shape doesn’t bother me at all.
Now, if I’m watching a dancer, I like a lean, muscular guy, but if you look at the guys I’ve dated in my life, they all tend to be average height and slightly overweight.