Why do lesbians use toys such as strap-ons? Why not just be with a man.
- Not all do. And some women use strap-ons with their male partners.
- If you think about it long enough, I’m sure you can figure it out. A man is more than the power pack for a fleshly dildo.
Like anybody’s ever going to believe that!
DNFTT
sunrise, I take it that your “experience” with lesbian sex comes from pornography. Hate to burst your little bubble, but that’s not how it works in the real world. Most lesbians do not use toys, but there a few exceptions to that.
Because of the way the question is put, I really believe that I will not even try to dignify this with details.
They are not with men because there is no attraction to men. How simple is that?
I’m biting my tongue because I know this is GQ, not the Pit…
Sunrise, on the incredibly small chance that this is a legitimate inquiry… ask yourself why straight men prefer oral sex from women, and not men – after all, a mouth is a mouth, right? And why do gay men prefer oral sex from a man? Again, a mouth is a mouth.
The answer is clear: you don’t have sex with a mouth, any more than you have sex with a cylindrical object. You have sex with a person to whom you are attracted.
- Rick
:rolleyes:
Well, if orientation was based solely on what happens in bed, then I would assume more people wouyld be gay.
According to those who know, men give better blow jobs. So why don’t more men accept blow jobs from men?
The average woman will more likely know what it takes to bring a woman to orgasm than the average woman. So why wouldn’t women want to have sex with women? If they really have their heart set on having sex with a phalis, they could just go out and buy one. That way they don’t have to worry about it being too big, too small, curving in odd directions, being in the mood when you aren’t, having bad breath in the morning, farting under the sheets, etc. Plus, for some odd reason, men’s penises don’t vibrate. What fun is that?
Sexual orientation, strangely enough, is much too complex to simplify down to being about only sex.
Speak for yourself 
Maybe you’re just not doing it right
A lesbian friend tells me that just lately the cops in Rehoboth Beach DE busted a shop in the gay area (Baltimore Street) for selling “sex toys”. Apparently this is illegal in DE. They fought the bust in court but it didn’t work. But no, neither she nor any others I know use “strap ons”. I have to agree with the post that suggests the OP’s question comes from watching lame pornos. I also concur with the post that essentially says that it’s who and not what you’re with that makes the difference.
Huh? What are you talking about beaker?? Other mens’ penises don’t vibrate? Wow, I just must be special … or maybe I should stop drinking so much caffeine.
I just want to chime in that I am glad to see that sunrise_4836 has resumed her old habit of asking questions about sex that I had when I was going through puberty.
Wet Dreams - this one includes my most favorite thread closing.
From JCHeckler:
It can’t be a state law cuz there’s a porn shop in Newark (New Castle County, Rehoboth is Sussex County) and they sell toys and stuff.
Do you have a reference to maybe an article on the web. I’d be interested in it.
And for the record: I only know about that store because I was lost and needed directions. That’s my story and I’m stickin’ to it. :rolleyes:
Speaking as a fine citizen of Rehoboth…
Here’s what actually happened. Basically- and this was some years ago, at least 3- these two women opened up a store that sold adult toys that was right on Baltimore Avenue. Rehoboth is a relatively small both family and gay-friendly resort, for the record. The problem was that they were not in the zoning requirements for a store that sells sex toys. There are several that do so in Sussex County- there is one off of the main highway, Rt. 1, which is not even 10 minutes away from the one in question.
Now, these were two women who weren’t local. They came in screaming descrimination because they didn’t have the brains to obey the local zoning laws and not open a place with dildos where kids can (and did) walk in. It was a zoning thing, and that is all. Also, they didn’t even bother to employ screening measures, to boot. Morons.
The problem is, they did scream descrimination. Which is absurd to the nth degree. The local gay community was extremely upset with them, and the general opinion was that they were picking a fight. Then the Lesbian Avengers, having no concept that descrimination didn’t have a damn thing to do with it, came in and did a protest march. There was a whole bunch of publicity, and it was all because two morons didn’t realize if they’d gone to some other part of the town or understood that just because you’re gay doesn’t mean that it’s an excuse for breaking the law.
Yeesh.
Anyway, that’s the story. People in Reho- myself included, is that obvious- still are a bit passionate about it.
Regarding the OP- :rolleyes: Grow up.
is it true most lesbians dont use strap ons… all the ones i know do… where did that blanket statement come from?
As a friend of xtcnawoman; I can vouch for her knowledge in such areas. She has played “on the other team” all her life.
I don’t know where that statement came from either. We certainly do use lots of strap-ons. Sex toys rule!
…and thank you for speaking on behalf of every single lesbian on the planet. :rolleyes:
Some do. Some don’t. It’s a matter of preference. Unlike, say, sexual orientation.
actually, I was just referring to myself and my girlfriend–we use lots all by ourselves! my emphasis should have been: WE certainly do use lots of strap-ons.
happy now lesbians??
Love,
Carrie
Thanks for the clarification, and welcome to the show.
I’m curious - why do you use “lots” of them? Do you normally have 6 or 7 lovely ladies in your bedroom at once? Do you use different ones depending on the season? Holiday strap-ons? A Christmas one with mistletoe on it? A spooooooooky black and gold Halloween one? Or a festive pinata dildo on Cinco de Mayo?
Or is it a color-matching thing - you know, black satin sheets, black strap-on dildo…(I saw this on Martha Stewart’s Lesbian Living once)?
Or a religious thing? Do you use circumcised/uncircumsized depending on whether it’s Hanukkah or Christmas?
[sub]No offense, I’m only kidding here, sister. I also want to extend an invitation to join ULVAN. Woo![/sub]
No, but it’s not your fault.