I agree with herownself, Miller and Larry Mudd. I have spoken with lissener off-board a great deal, and he is one of the more intelligent people I know. He is not the only one to defend Vehoeven, Cervaise and I do too. I take it very lightheartedly, as I can’t get worked up over film very much, but I understand where he is coming from.
Rarely is anyone ever willing to discuss the issue on it’s own merits. Mention of Verhoeven is immediately met with sarcastic and dismissive put downs about how trashy Verhoeven is. Some are willing to play, and claim that they “get it,” but still didn’t like it. That is a perfectly reasonable and defensible position, but most then go on to reveal, through discussion, that they really don’t get it, which they refuse to acknowledge. Actually understanding a piece and disliking it is fine. Dismissing it, or claiming to understand it and dismissing it (while not really getting it) is annoying as hell. Witness the fourteen page thread with CandidGamera about abstract art. Anyone who participated in that thread knows what it is like to try to argue with someone who puts on their blinders and refuses to try to see the merits of something, instead trashing it as worthless garbage. Witness the pit thread by someone who couldn’t convinve her mother that the .pdfs or whatever of sheet music on a CD couldn’t be played on a CD player, as they were only transcriptions of the music, not the actual music itself as performed by a band. That is what it is like trying to argue with someone who just doesn’t get it. lissener appears to have just gotten fed up after five years of trying to get the CD to play. I acknowledge that he is not blessed with a great deal of equanimity, nor a friendly posting style. News flash: some people aren’t. The world is not happy-fun-time land. Deal with it like an adult.
Which brings me to my next point. What the fuck is up with people rejoicing in bannings? It has happened in every banning I’ve seen (including my own, to answer stpauler’s question). Are you people really such arrogant, obnoxious assholes that you are happy that someone you don’t agree with is now out of your sight, never to disturb you little comfort zone? In case you hadn’t noticed, the world is not a McDonalds playground. There will always be people with which you diagree, sometimes vehemently. There will be people who you think act like jerks, who don’t treat you like you’d like to be treated, and who you just plain don’t like. Suck it up and deal with it. People don’t get BANNED in the real world, you just have to act like a grown up and cope. People of varying personalities and natures and behaviors and intellects are what contribute to the varied and stimulating nature of this board, as they do in life. What right do you have to smirk when a piece of what makes this place interesting is removed? The board is now just a bit more insular, a bit more like the predictions for October whenever anyone (except trolls) are banned. But by god, do a little happy dance that you never have to deal with a dissenting viewpoint ever again.
My personal opinion is that bannings, (excepting socks and spamming and whatnot) should be replaced with one month suspensions, followed by probation. This is essentialy what happened with Collounsbury, he proved that he couldn’t follow the rules. But maybe some could. Maybe Zenster could have calmed down. Maybe anybody who has been banned could have benefited from a month off of the boards, been able to put things in perspective and been capable of rejoining the boards and becoming a productive member. The policy of permanent banning is just a little over the top, IMHO.