Heatherlee was dating Satan. From what I saw this seemed to be a serious relationship. I think most people saw the same thing.
Heatherlee got engaged to another man. Without breaking up with Satan first. Not even the day before she got engaged. Not even after she got engaged.
Satan found out by checking her web page
All of this can be found in old threads.
Even if this hadn’t happened to someone I like and admire, I would not like this person. Since this happened to someone who is liked and admired by many people on this board, heatherlee’s name has become synonymous with the kind of b**** that many men have been hurt by. In other words, she was a grade A jerk.
Is this cliquish behavior? IMO, no. If you were rejecting someone because they were a different economic status, race, or religion, or just new, that would be cliquish. I have seen people of all stripes embraced on this board, and new people are welcomed so enthusiastically, I get dizzy sometimes. To reject someone who is a major jerk however, is our privelege. IMO (again) the people who complain that this board is cliquish are jerks who don’t want to take responsibility for their behavior.
If SAE had defended “her friend” in an actual thread where h had been attacked, I might have a little empathy. But to start a thread just to bitch about how her friend had been treated to a group of h’s ex-boyfriends friends :rolleyes: