Love...whats the deal here?

In My Humble Opinion
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Hey ppl, just wondered here, is this possible?
heres the scenario
your in a relationshp etc etc and everything is fine your in love and yay its all happy, so your stayin at his place and you know falling asleep everything is fine, and you wake up and its still fine, and throughtout the day its still fine, and then u go home that nite, u get a text message on your phone, and its not fine? and you argue, leave it to the following day, then you break up cos its not fine?
i was wondering in your opinions, is it possible to fall out of love that quickly, despite the fact that you learn nothing new about the person, there is no one else involved, in fact things are exactly the same as the day before?!
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People actually use text messaging?

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According to the BBC news site… 500 million text messages are sent in ireland and britain every month

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It’s popular everywhere but the States, from what I understand.

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Your friend is a coward. Or 14 years old. Or both.

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i would have said hes neither…definatly not the second, hes a little younger then me and im 21

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Is it love or limerence?

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0812861345/103-6441956-1004600?vi=glance

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Yes. It’s called drive by love, or the drive through window of love. :rolleyes:

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Nope. This isn’t what you want to hear but if he is truly “out of love” I doubt he was ever in love to begin with. He changed his mind. If he was in love, then he still is and there is some issue that hasn’t been addressed. He may be too much of a coward to address this to you (Obvious if he broke up with you via TEXT MESSAGE - What a jerk)

But a lot of times guys think they are in love and it is just hormones. Find a good guy and move slow. It would be great if you could take people by there word but often times that isn’t the case.

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I got dumped via text message in England, twice. One was a two-month relationship.

Just wanted to share that …

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I felt miffed because I got dumped at lunch once…at least it was in person.

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Some Guys do that when they get close to a girl the first time. They get emotionally spooked. But then they usually come back later.

I get that feeling sometimes, but I know what it is so I don’t take it out on the woman.

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Sorry, y ou have to explian this. You get too close and it makes you want to dump her voa text message? Can you explain this to my female brain?:dubious:

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Happened to me. I said something she didn’t like. She never told me it upset her and she stewed on it for three months. Then she decided to break up over it even though we had never discussed it. I never saw it coming.

I was pretty pissed at myself and at her for a long time.

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Ego… i know the feeling… apparently i said something almost a month ago that hes pissed at! how am i supposed to be able to at least try fix a problem if i dont know about it?! jeeeeeeeeeesus me nerves!
and handy…do us all a favour and explain that one…