How do you make someone self-conscious? I always thought if you tried to be friendly and talked to others they would be more comfortable but recently have been told by a guy at work that I make him self-conscious. I don’t understand why, how I do this.
To fix this I sent him an email and said sorry, I don’t understand how I do this, it wasn’t my intention, I was only talking to you. He never replied and wont even look me in the eye any more and generally avoids my work area except when I’m not there.
Oh and I hope he doesn’t read the straight dope or monitor my internet usage at work because that would suck.
Please give me your take on why men/or woman become self-conscious because I seem to be putting my foot in my mouth.