Since I’m not a female, I’ve always wondered what goes through the female’s mind as the guy presses his luck to see how far he can take things with a lady.
Let’s say you’re a conservative type who likes to just peck a guy on the lips at the end of the first date. The guy you’re dating tries to shove his tongue down your throat. Are you entirely put off, or do you just assume he finds you remarkably attractive?
Or maybe you’re a lady who would let a guy go to second base. When his hand starts sliding towards third, what do you do to stop it? Do you think he doesn’t know when to stop, or do you just assume its what every guy who doesn’t know his boundaries would do?
Or maybe you’d go down on the guy, but don’t want to have sex with him. What do you think when he tries?
As a guy who has been shot down at various stages, I don’t get insulted or try to push the issue. I just assume that’s the game guys and girls play. Guys push it until they get shot down, and now they know how far they can go. In a relationship, every once in a while they push a little further and see if they can get away with it.