Out of interest, did you kind of anticipate that ?
If so a smart move
- also, if she is poking about here, then she has redeeming qualities.
Well, now we know what she’s doing all day… 
How do you get someone who doesn’t want to go, and probably doesn’t think there’s a problem, to a doctor? I imagine the scenario playing out like this -
“Sugarboodle, there’s something wrong, maybe you should see a doctor”
“Why? I’m fine, just tired/sick/whatever”
“No, really. Maybe just see if your meds can be changed”
“What are you saying? Are you implying that there’s something wrong with me?”
“No, I’m just worried about you, you lay in bed all…”
“Gawd, I’m sorry I’m not up to your standards Mr/Mrs f*c!ing perfect!”
That or total apathy.
That sounds about like the way it’d go, bobo. You can’t make anyone do anything, even if it is for their own good. She has to get her own shit together, for her own reasons. I know it’s frustrating as hell, but that’s the way it is. Of course, when you’re married, you should love the person enough to want to make their life better, even if that means changing some of the ways you do things.