[Obligatory—transparently, predictably obligatory—counter to this thread]
…why? Is there a particular reason why you refuse (or hate) to do it (D*-in-your-BH sex)? And if you do not perform it, do you also refuse to partake of it in other buttholes as well? If so, why? If not, why not?
If you find it too painful, have you at least attempted it with poppers (alkyl nitrite)? Don’t you think you should at least try this adjunct before ruling it out entirely?
There’s got to be some uncomfortable body issues going on. Gentlemen, it’s ok…buttsex is largely viewed as favorable amongst the male population.
P.S.: I have PMed FoieGrasIsEvil for his response, so if it is not forthcoming, you should probably assume that the predicate of this thread doesn’t apply and that he enjoys a little butthole action errrry now and then.
The analogy doesn’t work because most men are straight and aren’t interested in another man’s penis under any circumstances; most women on the other hand have quite a bit of interest in that appendage. Plus, anal sex tends to be painful I’m told (never tried it personally); “it hurts” is a perfectly understandable reason why someone would avoid something.
EDIT: An accurate analogy would be men going down on women…which as it happens a great many men do.
I actually know (and have known), quite a few women who were interested in some strap-on sex with their husbands. Of course, it was never brought up to them. Well almost never. From what I heard, when it was mentioned, the men usually got quite insulted and said they were most certainly NOT gay and had no desire to have anything put up their rears.
I have not refused to take it up the butthole. As I am straight, this has actually not been offered, to my knowledge. The 80’s were kind of confusing at times.
Should it ever be offered, I would imagine that (as I am straight) my answer would be “no.”
Nor have I used amyl nitrate. Not sure how that correlates to the women-giving-blowjobs thread, or to anal sex, but whatever floats your boat.
Perhaps, in like manner, women who don’t perform oral sex also don’t care for the practice…? Maybe they even believe that their dislike for it is self-justifying and doesn’t need to be explored by curious men?
In the interest of full disclosure (and to let my freak flag fly) I will admit to letting a woman shove a dildo up my ass on a couple of occasions (makes me think about that scene from “Something About Mary”). It was…interesting, but not something I care to repeat. I liken it to a woman that doesn’t particularly want a stiff cock shoved up her ass and does it anyway in the spirit of experimentation and the moment, but ends up preferring the occasional finger up the cornhole at the moment of climax.
I’m aware of the practice. I found it interesting that the most common term I’ve heard for it - “pegging” - is in fact apparently of recent origin via Dan Savage’s “Savage Love” column.
It’s still not the equivalent of fellatio though. There’s plenty of gay men who don’t do anal either; it’s not just a gender thing.
Well, buttseks is sort of different from knobgobbling butt the OP does have some validity with respect to invasive procedures.
A nontrivial number of hetero couples engage in him-in-her buttsex, and I assume a somewhat smaller number get into her strapon-in-him play. Possibly less weird is prostate massage which involves a considerably smaller invasion and likely to be less reminiscent of getting a cock up the ass. I gotta say, I ain’t into the butt. Not even a little curious. I have no desire to penetrate my woman’s butt (although she’d be into it), and my pooper is a one-way street no matter how glorious the tales of prostate massage are. I guess I’m inhibited, never really wondered why though.
