Well, tomorrow evening’s small shindig has somehow morphed into something rather bigger than I was expecting. I guess it’s nice that people want to come over to our house and spend time with us. Originally, the gathering was to consist of myself and hubby, nephew, and two other couples. Now, in addition, to the original people, we have my niece, another nephew, some gal my husband and his nephew know from work, and three other couples coming. I guess the more the merrier, and more money to win at “99”. Plus, my neighbor is coming too.
My nephew has a bad habit of feeling free to invite people to my home, even though he’s not hosting. :dubious: Lord knows how many other people he’s invited for tomorrow night without telling me or the hubby. I find this somewhat nervy and irritating, especially since he rarely contributes to the booze or food required. He is supposedly contributing for tomorrow, but I’ll believe it when I see it. He’s continuously broke, (which I understand, because I’ve been there), and then can’t come up with what is required. I wouldn’t mind so much if he’d ask me before inviting these folks. He just assumes it’s okay. I don’t like surprises, because I want to ensure there are enough drinks and food on hand for the people coming. I don’t want to come up short and I want people to have a good time.
Last November, at another gathering we hosted, this nephew invited some gal I’d never met before. This is fine, he’s single. But, he came empty-handed and he and his date made very short work of some of our bottles of booze. In fact, I didn’t even get a drink out of one of the bottles. To top it off, they locked themselves in our powder room for some…adult activity. This squicked me out no end. It also meant the other guests had to go upstairs to use ours or the kids bathroom. I don’t really want tons of people tromping through my bedroom. This is my private area.
Finally, and Og knows I love this nephew, he’s just a huge accident waiting to happen. He’s spilled hot green candle wax all over my BEIGE great room carpet; he’s busted a lamp, he broke a shelving unit in my garage, he spilled his drink all over the back of my leather loveseat, he’s spilled numerous drinks on my carpet. I just cringe when he walks in my house.
Oh man, that sounded all ranty like. I didn’t mean for it to. I’m sure we’ll all have a good time. I’ve just been informed another couple is coming, and they’re bringing their eight-year old kid. Normally, I don’t mind, but this is an adult gathering. This means my kids, who stay well out of the way, will have to keep him occupied. Unfortunately, this kid irritates them no end. Well, nothing can be done, but to smile gracefully and accept it. It’s one night, we’ll live.
I still haven’t seen any takers for our rain. C’mon, you’re all welcome to it. I want some sunshine and warmth.
I need to get back to cleaning up our bonus room. I want to ensure it’s clean in case anyone needs to stay the night tomorrow. It’s a given that the nephew will. He always drinks too damn much.