He and I went out for a year and three months, near the end of the relationship I sensed that something was wrong, and kept asking him what was wrong and he always said “nothing.” His brother (living in Montana) was getting married around x-mas time, and my ex didn’t have a car, so he asked me if I would drive him to the airport and pick him up when he came back to NC. I said sure and drove him there, he said that he would e-mail me and let me know when he was coming back, then kissed me, said he loved me, and left. Nineteen days after he was supposed to have come back, he still hadn’t contacted me, so I went over to his apartment to see if he was there/ask his roommates what was up if he wasn’t. He answered the door. He made some dumb-ass excuse about how he “might not be able to go to college in NC, and so he might have to leave in a few months, so what’s the point of seeing each other if we know it isn’t going to last?” I gave him two weeks to find out about the education opportunites in NC (weren’t any that he wanted to take, apparently) and still had to initiate the communication that finally brought to light that, no, he couldn’t stay in NC.
Now, I had lent him some money, and he had paid it back promptly, so I felt ok about lending him more ($203 for a sports coat for an x-mas party) and my parents lent him $500 for the security deposit on his appartment.
He said that he was going to pay it back in August, when his lease ran out.
I did not hear from him, so durring the middle of the summer, I went back to his appartment, only to be informed that he had moved away several months before. His roommate had a number for him (in Tennesse) and so I called. I talked to him. He promised to repay me. A month or so later, he e-mailed me, said he was in California working on an apprenticship, and that when he got the money together, he would pay me back. Sure. Right. Son of a Bitch!!! :mad:
Anyway.
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(God I hate using those).