I have known people who have protected relatives from the police even after they’ve done stuff this bad or worse. We are taught from an early age that family has to stick together and blood is thicker than water. Common sense doesn’t really enter in to it.
That said I hope Superdude can convince the girlfriend to press charges. The Not Nice People and the sister too should face consequences for what they did.
I have a sister, the family baby in fact. Who has dealt so much crap to her family. Her 4 kids and inlaws, her 2 ex’s. It wouldn’t take 2 seconds for me to decide to turn her over to police about WAY less than this. But the OP has to do what he can live with. That doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have a serious conversation with her. Get a handle on it, Superdude. Let us know how it goes. I wish you peace in whatever you do.
Not me. I’m glad it all worked out ok regardless of what went down but the whole thing seemed a tad fishy. The OP was at home, posting, but would not answer questions regarding contacting the FBI. We all treat crisis in a different way but there is no way I would have had time to post on a message board under those conditions. I would have been calling the FBI, the media, my congressman. Any carjacking or kidnapping should have made a big splash on the news.
I’m not suggesting the OP was trolling or making up the basics of the story but like Gray Ghost, the story or the OP’s response doesn’t make sense or at the least there is more to it.
Again, I am glad his GF is ok.
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But did they do anything? Did they really carjack her? Make a stink. Was the carjacking just part of sister’s theatricality and did she have GF give them the car to protect Sis? Make a stink. Was there no carjacking and GF still has it? Make a stink with her.
So glad she’s safe!
Good to see you active on here, Superdude. Does it mean things are calming down for you?
Glad she’s home safe!
Glad for a good ending. Cars are only things after all.
I’m glad this ended so well, but please stop all contact with your sister-in-law. She obviously thinks she can do whatever she wants and it’s never her fault. I had a sister like that, and those people do not change, and will sell you down the river in a heartbeat.
As you just found out the hard way.
Where was she while she was missing?
Oh, I don’t think we’re ever gonna get the full story on this one. It went from "she’s not close to her family " to “Oh, her sister caused it, but everything’s OK” inside a day.
I am so glad she is home, safe and sound! Her sister though, that’s a sticky situation. Best of luck, Superdude and Girl Wonder.
I’m happy to hear that she’s home and safe.
Do they still have her car and phone?
I am glad to hear the update, but I am still concerned with the description of how the police responded. Especially since the update included that the GF was kidnapped by drug dealers. That does not strike me as a situation that can be ended with “she doesn’t want to press charges”. ISTM to be a fairly serious dereliction of duty, especially if there is a suggestion that they ignored a kidnapping because the victim was part of an inter-racial couple.
Do you know if the outcome was that the drug-addicted sister betrayed your GF over a drug debt because your GF told you so?
Again, it is certainly good that it is now over with your GF home.
Regards,
Shodan
No, it didn’t. He said early on “she’s not close to her family for various and sundry reasons”. Obviously this is the various and sundry reasons.
He didn’t say “everything is ok”, he said he was trying to talk his girlfriend into pressing charges.
If you’re lucky enough to never have to deal with drama triangle crap, you won’t know this, but this is perfectly consistent with addiction and drama triangles.
Yeah, I don’t know why the internet detectives are suddenly all over the case saying something sounds fishy. First of all, of course we don’t know every last detail of what went down. Superdude is probably still figuring it all out himself. Second, what Zyada said. His statements about her not being close with her family are perfectly consistent with the situation we’ve been presented with. Third, this guy’s been around this board for 18 years and doesn’t appear to have a history of telling tall tales (although I admit I didn’t do a super extensive search, just a quick skim of past posts). Based on all that, I think it’s reasonable to take him at his word.
Isn’t this the same board that let umkay yank them around for nearly a month? Calm down, give the guy some room to breathe. If it’s all a big hoax, I’m sure it’ll come to light eventually, but I just don’t see it.
Yeah, well, umkay talked a lot about sex.
ears perk up Somebody say sex?
Yeah, what expecto said.
This.
What kind of car was it? 
This post is a placeholder, before you all start yelling at me.