My hatred of my foster sister burns with the ire of a thousand Huns.

wow an eaten OP.

Maybe your foster sister is to blame for this as well.

::sigh:: Luckily I’d copied it before I hit “Submit,” afraid of just this situation.

So this 17-year-old girl and her baby daughter move into my house while I’m away at school. This isn’t unusual. My parents have been foster parents for various and sundry since I was eleven years old (that’d be about eight years now). But this chick is a fucking PSYCHO BITCH.

I know she was abused as a kid. I know she was raped and that’s how she got pregnant. I know that probably ought to help me be more understanding. But I don’t fucking care.

The goddamn psych bitch tried to choke my father two days after I came home from school. I still don’t know what the hell that was about.

She’s threatened to kick my ass several times, for various non-reasons (like I was looking at her funny, or I touched her laundry). She’s threatened to kick my grandmother’s ass because Nana had a little black girl doll on a shelf in her screen-room, so the psycho bitch assumed my grandmother is a horrible racist.

She got kicked out of school last month after she broke a girl’s nose in the hallway while in the process of kicking her ass.

I’ve never liked her.

But yesterday was the last fucking straw.

While I was at home with my friends, kicking back and playing with sparklers, my parents and the foster kids went up to the city to go to a fabric store. Mom and the psycho bitch went inside and my dad stayed out in the car to watch the 10-month-old baby, who was asleep. The baby started crying, as babies often do for various reasons (especially this one, who likes the sound of her own voice), and when the psycho bitch came out of the store and saw the baby crying she decided that my father must have been beating the baby. So as soon as she got home she grabbed the baby out of the car and ran down the street barefoot, ducked into a neighbor’s house and used their phone to call the cops on my dad.

The cops, after having heard the whole story, basically laughed it off, and there’re no charges filed, but still - she called the police on my father for absolutely no reason, just because she’s a goddamn fucking psycho bitch.

My dislike has turned into utter outright hatred.

That girl is dead to me. I am never going to interact with her again. Hopefully she will be removed from the house soon.

Fucking psycho bitch.

:mad:

More likely a case of Spontaneous Combustion.

And your parents are doing what exactly to rectify this dangerous, nutso situation that could wind up with one of your relatives seriously injured or your father in jail charged with something or other by your unstable tenant, ? Please don’t tell me she is still in your house. She should have been removed the first time she threatened your grandmother.

Isn’t 17 a little old to be in foster care?

You can be in foster care until you’re 18, Lola; 21 in some cases, like this one, since she has the baby. Why would 17 be too old?

I dunno - I had already moved outta my childhood home at the age of 17 to travel the world, is all.

{{{{{racinchikki}}}}}, I don’t know what to say. How awful. Is this psychotic young woman getting any kind of counseling or psychiatric care and perhaps some medication to help her control her rage? It’s just pathetic how she’s taking out her anger at what has happened to her and striking out at your family who is only trying to help her. :frowning: I wish you and your family luck in dealing with her, hon, and I do wish her luck in finding a way to get past all the pent up anger and hurt that she is carrying around and managing very badly.

Dang. I feel for the baby. Whatever hatred you feel for the mother, make sure the baby is safe.

b.

She’s in counseling, she sees a psychiatrist once a week and she’s under prescription for Zoloft for depression and anxiety attacks. She still pulls this shit.

My parents are considering having her removed from the home. My mom doesn’t want to. :rolleyes: My dad sides with me, of course, since he’s the one who’s getting the shortest end of the stick here.

Billy Rubin, the baby is the only possible reason I could ever support the idea of the psychobitch staying in our home. The baby is adorable and sweet. It’s possible that we could keep the baby even if her mother was emancipated or otherwise removed, but only if we went to court; even though the mother is unstable and not attached to the child at all except when it suits her purposes, the state’s official policy is to keep families together whenever possible.

You got your head right, Racinchikki.
b.

Smack your mother around. The girl seems dangerous and needs to be taken care of by very qualified professionals. Hopefully her child will get looked after by some good people

Why does your mother want to keep her around?

Mom wants to keep her around because, as she says, the girl has had enough insecurity in her life, and now she’s finally in a place where she feels like she will stay. (She likes my mom, you see. It’s the rest of the family she doesn’t seem to trust, and my dad she seems to hate. Probably man issues from the rape, that.) Also, we are the only foster family in our county that can handle rough cases like her; my parents have been trained in therapeutic foster care. Even non-therapeutic foster families are hard to come by, and therapeutic ones are extremely rare.

I say screw it. She’s tried to kill my dad. She is the weakest link, goodbye.

Hmm, my aunt and uncle were in a similar situation a couple of years ago. The girl was about 17, her daughter 4. Both terrible, and they had a had time keeping her from getting pregnant again. She cursed them constantly despite their toleration. They finally had enough. :wally

See, what I, at first, didn’t understand is that the girl is still in foster care, despite having a child. Then I read it was from rape, and I agree with the position a little better.

However, if she’s treating your family with such obvious contempt and outright hatred, she should be removed.

I am far from an expert on these kinds of things, but letting this kind of behavior continue unpunished seems to me to be a very bad idea. The bitch needs intensive psychiatric care, for her baby’s sake.

She’s already demonstrated violence and anger toward other people – how long before that violence and anger turns toward the child?

(this is not to downplay the danger to the OP’s family … I hope the girl is stopped before anything more terrible happens!)

Maybe Mom would be swayed if someone pointed out that a bitch as crazy as this one is almost certain to accuse Dad of sexually molesting her the next time she gets a bug up her ass.

The girl obviously needs to be in a secure setting, NOT a normal home, not even a therapeutic foster home. Not to mention that in this state, (New York) having a child in a household where domestic violence occurs is sufficient to establish neglect on the part of the parent. I would think the 17-year-old’s assault on your father might be a good basis for a neglect petition against the girl.

What Tenar said.

She’s a legal time-bomb, witing to go off and destroy your family’s reputation, status, and possibly even livelihood should anyone listen to her allegations with even half-seriousnes. The threat against your Nana cannot be countenanced at all.

Inpatient theraputic care, at a minimum. The right kinds of facilities will even allow her to keep her child with her while she’s undergoing therapy.