Earlier this month I went on a cruise, and during the cruise I had a fling with an older woman (no, I am not making this up, yes, the whole story sounds too much like a Penthouse letter, moving on…). I had posted about this a few weeks ago, because I had kind of a hard time getting over the fact that it was just a fling (I’m better now, thanks! )
When I got back from the cruise, I just had to tell my friend about it. Not to brag about it, but just to share the experience. Both my best friend and I have had ladyfriends few and far between, so it is fun sharing what happened with each other. When I talked about it to my friend over the phone, his roomate was eavesdropping on the conversation at his apartment.
This girl can really get under my skin. We used to be friends, but lately I’ve been simply unable to tolerate how dysfunctional and neurotic she can be, and frustrated by how much she manipulates my best friend. She loves to think of me as some perpetual loser, and treats me as such when she brings her friends over so she can stroke her own ego. When she found out I had slept wtih another woman, it apparently blew her mind that I was able to accomplish something that, in her mind, was “Impossible!” :eek:
But it was true, and apparently nosy roomate was so repulsed by the notion she just had to tell everyone she knew, and apparently they were so sympathetic about how traumatized she was from hearing this information. :rolleyes:
So now I am constantly being asked rude comments, like “I bet she was ugly” and “I hope she gave you herpes” I feel like she’s taking a pleasant experience and maligned it into something horrible and wrong.