my tendency is to do the opposite of most of the advice on here. I fuel my rage until I’m worked up into a state of pure hate…then it burns away with only apathy left behind.
Just thought I’d throw that in since the rest of this advice doesn’t seem to be helping. Sometimes white hot fury will exhaust the only feelings you had for the situation…
No…I’ve had an interval. To think about other things. He’s gone. But you are all right. Gotta take care of the people he left behind.
Kalhoun, everyone knew he was crazy. Trouble was he grew up in Queens in the 1950’s, with an Italian grandmother and mother. You don’t talk about mental illness. One time in the early nineties, the New Jersey state police found him walking along the Turnpike in a psychotic fugue. Then he got “better” and convinced them to let him go. Well, I guess he got let go for good, this time. Thanks everyone.
County, I’m sorry I lashed out at you. Didn’t mean it. Please don’t take it personally. I was in a crappy frame of mind.
By The Way, we don’t know what we are going to do with the ashes. There’s still time to burn a double sawbuck and mix it in. I will let you know what we end up doing with his “cremains.” God, that’s a nasty word. “Ashes” is much more, I don’t know, muscular?
Flush him.
It’s a kind of closure… 
I agree. “Cremains” sounds like a particularly awful brand of cereal.
Oh, They’re all right. You just gotta put some sugar on 'em.
What did Uncle Fucker die from?
Fucking uncles?
No offense taken, hell I have insulted so many people on this board I am kinda ashamed to get an apology. Don’t burn the money, spend it on yourself.
Uncle Fucker had a lung taken out a few months ago. He smoked, see, and well, the cancer spread more than they thought. I found it very interesting that you cant blow your nose if you only have one lung. Apparently, you cant muster the air pressure required. I guess something good did come out of it.
Oh yes. Just saw Master and Commander. Awesome God Damn Movie.
Destroying $20 may or may not be cathartic, but it didn’t work for me when I tried it, in less dramatic circumstances. Of course there was my image at stake there, and it just made me look like a creep 
But whatever.
Mr. Babbington, take that $20 and donate it to a rape crisis center. It’s not much, but the symbolism alone may help you to feel better.
Mr. Babbington
I hope you chose not to go to the funeral/memorial service if one was held, the creature does not deserve your time or mental anguish. You do need to let the water flow past your bridge though and release your hatred so that it does not damage you. He perhaps was “damaged” sexually & mentally early in life and chose to stay on that path, but you should choose to live you life not encumbered by his baggage.
As for the remains …flush them down the toilet or better yet, throw them in the trash and let them find their way into the nearest garbage heap. If he was as bad as you indicate he should have no mourners.
Use his ashes to fertilize a garden.
Then his remains will be put to some good use, and won’t that drive him crazy!