My uncle is a trained hypnotherapist and has a PhD in psychology, and I’ve had a correspondance with him for the majority of my adult life on an informal basis. He’s helped me out in getting me a job and seeing a different perspective on life.
But there’s another side which is bothering me.
I’ve been dating and it’s been on going for a few months. Now, before I dated asian women etc, and there was no problem, the minute I dated this black woman it’s a big deal. He says ‘does she love you’ and ‘she’s just gonna use and abuse you’ so I called him up on it, I said to him you had no problem with me dating other races of women, yet the minute I date a woman who is black, it’s a big deal.
I guess the only theory I have is that my grandma told me once when he was young he was assaulted by some black women and has held a grudge about it ever since. But I don’t know about that.
Then he’s replied back with basically a goodbye note and have a nice life, just like a complete over the top reaction, so I replied about how sad I was about how it had come to this, for something imo was over nothing.
On another note, one of my brothers contacted me to tell me how my youngest brother had stopped contact with my mum, and I think it’s my uncle who has a grievance with my mum, is manipulating my youngest brother against her to hurt her.
This is a grown adult who has lived a very successful life we’re talking about. What’s going on with him? Should I keep a distance?