The last time I saw my maternal uncle in person was age 13, and at the time he didn’t even seem interested in saying hi to me.
I got his email address and phone number and was unsuccessful in contacting him at either.
Then he entered into a dispute with my mom over an inheritance that had been probated more than a decade prior. I emailed him during this interested in talking to him, I made clear I was NOT contacting him to spy for my mom or to support her but just to talk about the situation and help him understand her. No reply.
Recently I sent him a snail mail greeting card just asking him to email me or call my US phone number toll free, time went on and I emailed him repeatedly to ask if he got my letter. First email I ever got from him and it was one sentence “yes I did”
I’ve at a loss here, I honestly just wanted to talk to him. I don’t have much family and I’m kinda depressed that another member is alienated.
I guess I’d just like him to explain WTF is his deal?