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Someone who is a better fit for you will be along shortly. I’m confused–are you in the USA now or where?
He’s in the Land of Nod.
Yep. I hate to admit it, but I think it’s true. At least until we get all used up and haggard. And even then, there’ll be an Artie Johnson on a park bench – somewhere.
Won’t there?
What is this “dating” thing of which everyone is speaking?
I’m a single guy, living in the Washington DC area. I’m a pretty average guy, decent job. Usually by date two, there is a strong offering of sex. God forbid I don’t’ jump on the chance. It’s like a killed her dog or something. An observation or two:
Men have be trained since we have been 15 that we’ll get turned down for sex a lot. We are supposed to act like we are happy about this. Don’t get the least upset. But be generally pleased that we were even given the opportunity to ask.
Women believe that when they want sex, it will be available. A man not dare turn down offered sex. If you do, run quickly in the opposite direction.
This might be the last double standard to ever fall.
You see where you’re going wrong?
You’re still being picky.
Why not just admit it, you just want a woman, any woman…old, fat, thin,skanky, and so on and so forth.
You have no chance of savagely rogering a woman within inches of her life if you don’t lower your high standards.
Yeah, Saudi babes don’t drive, I hear.
Harsh words were exchanged? By you or by her? Or both? That passive voice always makes me super suspicious.
heh…“You look like I could use a blowjob.”
OP, I, uh … thanks for the pleated slacks tip!
Want a Walnetto, little girl?
By her. When upset, I get very polite. (Some NCOs pointed this out to me once, “Get the machine gun over there, please!”)
I’m just trying to imagine Marilyn Monroe singing “Novels Are A Girl’s Best Friend”. :dubious:
Single?
DC area?
How you doin?
Susan
Fair enough. Sounds unpleasant–I’m female, but I’d never do such a thing on a date, and would be pretty damned peeved if someone tried to strong arm me into sex.
Hey now, I’d put out for a steady stream of novels! DeBeers? They’ve got nothing on Harper Collins.
By rejecting her you made her feel like a slut and undesirable all at once. That’s not necessarily your fault, but people’s offense comes when the validity of their identity is called into question.
Sorry, just skimmed the thread. Based on the OP, I’d say it’s inconclusive whether the OP would fuck on the first date. I think if the date had played her cards right and not insulted the OP, there would be bunnies.
Maybe not now, being old AND married,
but I never needed a first date, a first handshake would do just fine.
Paul’s date sounds like an idiot, and there’s no need for harsh words just because someone is turned down for sex. But there’s nothing wrong with fucking on the first date, and someone who doesn’t isn’t morally superior to someone who does.
You’re saying it was a planned ‘ambush’ because she had arranged for her son to stay elsewhere. So what?
I don’t mean to have a go, and there was definitely no excuse for the way she behaved, but wanting sex on the first date doesn’t say anything about the person other than that s/he wants sex.
Good luck with the dating.
