None of this fucking matters

The BBQ Pit
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“All good things must come to an end.”

Shit, I forgot who said it, or when, but this trite phrase has gotten me through so many crises alive (much to Czarcasm’s dissappointment).

Think about it. Life - we die. Love - we or they die or we lose it. Great car - it rusts. On and on.

Yeah. It hurts. Pain sucks. But remember, we get past it and life goes on (Sola Resurgit Vita - thanks to Cat Stevens.), eventually.

I once pined for a year over a lost love. And grieved for longer over another. It ain’t fair.

Nothing is fair.

You don’t really want advice, so you can stop reading now, cause I can’t help myself:

Wallow in he pain for as long as you ,must; his, too, has a reason, and you will be better for having gone through it.

Don’t hold any grudges. Pretend that it didn’t mean nuthin’ when you see the former SO, it’ll do you both good.

Look at life as if through a kaliedescope for a change. What’s out there that you never saw before? Seize the day, the moment, the experience. There’s no accidents in the Universe and this is your Golden Egg, if you can see it.

Share your love. Love yourself first, then share that. Follow your heart and it will bring you to more hurt, but it ill also bring you some on the best experience in your life.

Hang in there, and best fortune.
S¬
…V

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Well, out of pain comes genius. Sorry you’re hurtin’, dude, but I’m gonna be laughing about that one for at least a week. :smiley:

I can’t sleep either.

p.s. I only met you briefly, but I thought you were cute and had gorgeous hair. Maybe that doesn’t mean much coming from a old married hag like me, but heck, I thought maybe it would cheer you up a little.

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All I have to say is, anyone who can make a Hitchiker’s Guide to the Galaxy reference when he’s in emotional pain, is alright in my book. =)

Hang in there.

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Very well put Eonwe. Keep venting- it’s a very good thing to do. I’ll be praying for you.

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Eonwe Just hang in there, and realize that these feelings don’t last forever. Take it from someone who has been there, and bought a whole truck load of tshirts!

Things get better. :slight_smile:

hugs

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Translation of this thread:

Eonwe: “You’re all fucking pointless. Sorry I said that, but I’m sad.”

Everyone, except me, who was called pointless: “I’m sorry you’re sad. What was that other part, a funny booger joke, and a Hitchhiker’s reference? Cool.”

Trunk: “Ummm. That other part was him telling you you’re fucking pointless, so fuck you, Eonwe.”

Everyone, except me, who was called pointless: “Fuck you, Trunk”

Neat work, Eo.

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SHUT THE FUCK UP ALREADY

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Eonwe, If you can’t get hold of some Ambien or other good stuff, try Benadryl or NyQuil. You need to get some sleep.

And Trunk, You’re an asshole. Do you enjoy being an asshole? Is the attention you get really worth making people dislike you intensely? I’m guessing that you’re not a happy person. Here’s a big fat clue for free: STOP BEING AN ASSHOLE.

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See, this is where lurking for a bit, and understanding how the group which you’ve joined (or ANY group for that matter, how long have you been online?) works.

This forum is the PIT. Hence people rant. Had you really been all that upset at him calling us and you “pointless” you would have stuck to complaining about THAT point, and NOT then gone on to insult him in ways having nothing to do with what you claim to be his “sin”. Which by the way, he came right back in the next several posts of his and recalled.

So basically, you’re full of shit, you just wanted to be nasty and cruel for no reason.

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Trunk, fuck off, twerp.

Eonwe, sorry to hear you’re unhappy. Come to back to Toronto and we’ll hook you up a cheap, meaningless affair with a Canadian girl. Won’t make you feel better, but at least the sex will be great. :smiley:

Seriously, drop a line any time. The Hotel is open all year round.

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I thought that deserved to be said again. I also want to add:
FUCK OFF ASSHOLE

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Just wanted to say thank you to everyone (well, mostly everyone); those of you I know and those I don’t, it was appreciated.

I’m fine now, or at least better. Life goes on, etc etc. Letting out that frustration kind of helped me get over it, as did the words of support and empathy.

No it wasn’t the most horrible thing that has happened to me, or will in the future I suppose, but it still hurt. Thank you all (well, mostly all) for being the supportive community that I have always known the SDMB to be.

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That hole is deep enough. You don’t have to keep digging.

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***Please stay away ** * from Seratonin Reuptake Inhibitors, such as Ambien, Paxcil, Prozac and the rest… They WILL fuk with your mind!

Try meltonin, or even benadryl, to get sleep if you need it…

S

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Yeah… that’s kind of what they’re for. You shouldn’t take them unless told by a doctor, though.

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Trunk, for heaven’s sake, look around. 90% of what we post is pointless, and can be seen as even more so when viewed in the intensely cynical light that follows emotional distress. I love the boards as much as the next doper, but I can see what’s around me without rose-coloured glasses.

Hey Eonwe, coming up here any time soon?

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If you ever make it down to Boston again, your second beer’s on me.

Hey, look at the bright side-tons of free alchohol :slight_smile:

That does suck though. Hope things turn around for you soon.