Agreed. Even if he won’t listen. Just apologize, apologize, apologize…tell him how much you didn’t mean to hurt and how much he means to you and how sorry you are…
And you can cry on my shoulder ANY time…no Wyatt to bring icecream btu I’ll get you some myself! big big hugs honey!!
You can email me any time Maureen. ((hugs))
Oh, I can also chat on MSN messanger I’ll turn it on now. I’m Simple_Dreamer7 @hotmail.com (without the space before the @)
I don’t have msn… but I do have yahoo (tanzorie) AIM (hubbasally) and ICQ (1820996)
They are always connected unless my computer is rebooting!
Thanks, sorella. :sniffle:
SD, I did apologize, over and over.
Tanookie; I…broke one of my cardinal rules. I teased him over something I know he’s sensitive about. In public. I have this horrible competitive streak. And, sometimes, my balls are bigger than my brains. But I know, I know, I KNOW the fastest way to lose a man is to embarrass him in front of his friends, and I went and did it anyway. Sometimes I wonder how I’ve managed to live this long.
And…we did talk. A bit. I’ve never been so scared of losing him as I was this morning. He wants time to cool off, and I’m trying to give it to him, but…God I feel awful. I feel sick and scared and all I want to do is pick up the phone and hear his voice. But I promised, I’d let him calm down. At least he said “I love you” before he went. WHY AM I SO F***ING STUPID!!! When will I learn to think before I speak?
Oh lord honey…I have stood in your shoes! I do stuff like that too. Men are sooo prideful. He will get over it but in the mean time you are doo-doo. HE still luvs ya…but you are doo-doo. IS this your honey we are talkin’ about? Mr. Maureen? Ya’ better start putting on your mea culpa shoes cuz you got some tall 'pologizing to do for a while…but he’ll get over it…sorry you are in the dog house. IT comes from being a strong mouthy woman. Has it’s good points and bad ones.
hugs
Unfortunately he needs this time to himself… if you push him it will most likely make things worse and not better. I know you know this too but I also know you really want to try and make things better.
I hope when he comes around to talk again that you can work things through. Be encouraged by the ‘I love you.’
Thank you all so much. I really do appreciate it. :sigh:
I think I’ll put myself back on floor duty for the next couple of days. Maybe I can get more done if I’m not staring at the phone non sto. I kinda feel bad for the techs, tho…
Maureen – I understand. It sucks to be a spitfire sometimes…but you know he loves you like you are and even though he might be embarassed. he loves that you are strong and mouthy too. We love you the way you are too. BIG BIG HUGS
I’ve done stuff like that before too… it will just take him some time. Hang in there, give him the space he needs for now but let him know you’re still there for him. (((hugs)))
You ladies are the best. I won’t feel all the way better til he hugs me again, but…you’ve helped. Tanookie, no going into labor until the end of the week, at least. SD, mipiace, Jaade, keep the hot tub warm for 6 and Dave and the guys til I get back. Everybody say a prayer for my lab techs, that they get through the rest of the week without losing a testicle. 'M going home early, I think. I don’t feel so great. Gonna take a headache pill and zonk early.
Take care of yourself Maureen… I’m fighting a headache myself today. Just remember, we all do and say dumb stuff sometimes.
D’oh! Maureen, are you sure you’re not my mouthy, argumentative, knows better but does dumb stuff anyhow psychic twin?
sigh
I so know how you feel, as in been there done that. Were I in your shoes, I would hand write a letter to Mr. Sweetie telling him again how sorry you are, recognizing both the how and the why, but also telling him why he’s so special to you, and all the little things about him that he says and does that warm every last cockle of your black little heart (assuming that like me, you have a wrinkly, black little heart and not a big thumpy, squishy one).
I’d give it to him, and then give him the space to come to you, and let him know that you’ll respect him and not chase him down, so’s he can come to you in his own time.
hugs (e-mail is available)
-w.i.
Jaade & Ghosty I do indeed have a flogger. It’s kind of a beginner’s flogger. Yes you can borrow it, (after Sunday that is) NO BODILY FLUIDS on it, m’kay?
And I may get another one this weekend, or maybe a slapper or an angry rabbit… or…
btw, above post not meant to imply that Maureen is mouthy, argumentative or in denial of stuff she shouldn’t oughtta do, much less black hearted, only that I am.
Flogger? Slapper? Angry rabbit?
Angry Rabbit is from that Monty Python movie, right?
thinks she’s probably showing her naiveity by asking the questions above
Well this place has floggers and slappers:
I’m as stymied as you as to what an angry rabbit is…
ay yi yi, now y’all are gonna think I’m just a big perv. I’m not! really! I’m justa leetle rabbit.
Uhmm…
An angry rabbit is a spanking device that is shaped roughly like a big floppy bunny ear. Except it’s not floppy. It’s stiff leather, meant to cause a real sting. On the other side is soft fuzzy furry stuff, meant to be very soft and soothing on stingy skin.
A slapper is just a spanker made with stiff leather, again meant to sting.
Floggers can be made of many different materials. They can either sting or they can deliver a whack more aptly described as a “thud”.
Some of these toys deliver more noise than anything else. Many slappers are actually two pieces of leather so as to make a really loud slap sound, without causing all that much pain.
*crickets: chirrr… chirrr… chirrr… *
damn!
Ah… Well, then… er… ah… um… blush … whatever cranks your engine. 