Well, I don’t envision any axe-wielding going on, but I think it would be funny if you unlocked the door, crept in, and found four other guys all standing there, keys in hand, staring at each other.
Oh please, guys. Like you even BELIEVE this?
Sure, it happens. No terribly often, but it happens. The key thing is…well…interesting. I’ve got a few, though never on the first date (which this certainly wasn’t, this really was more of a bar pick-up). Be careful, man.
I’ve given keys out before, more a a practical matter than anything else, since I often leave for work before my bed-side consort awakes and I, being the kind-hearted guy I am, leave them to sleep in my bed.
Be wary that when the newness wears off, you’re not left with something unexpected. Remember these words:
** No matter how fine or great she may seem, somebody somewhere is tired of her shit.**
Get a blood test. Use a condom.
You know, the way people get together doesn’t always have to be innocent and romantic. There is such a thing as sleazy hook-ups that turn into long lasting, meaningful relationships. I know a couple that met at a bar one night and proceeded to have sex at the poorly lit end of the bar within two hours of their introduction. They’ve been together 7 years, are now married and expecting their first child. They’re also wonderful people with no weird fetishes or hang-ups.
You never know. I wouldn’t run away screaming just because it moved fast and seemed unusual. Be careful, but don’t write the girl off as a psycho whore. Give her a chance. 
Okay, can I just write her off as a whore, then? Oh, actually since no payment was made, maybe that term should be slut.
Sure, just like the letters in Penthouse.
Actually, being of the “free love” generation, this seems par for the course. Maybe you young people are jealous of your elders’ debauched youths! Unprotected sex with strangers, drugs without the guilt, and decent rock and roll!
Ok ok… I know I’m gonna get killed for this, but someone has to play the devil’s advocate. So in that vein, here is my advice… Don’t burn any bridges until you have to. If you can have tremendous sex on the side and your SO has no clue whats going down, more power to ya. You would be a fool to throw away your SO based on a couple days with some strange chick you met in a bar. Assuming she does have the “male” POV already mentioned in this thread, it is very possible that she will want to sleep with you a few times, and then it will be all over. If you break up with your SO before you test this out, you will be left completely high and dry. If things continue on with the new girl, and look somewhat promising, then lose the SO. Just make sure the new chick isn’t gonna lose interest after a couple of nights. I know its devious to string along your SO while you figure this all out, but hey, what she doesn’t know wont hurt her. Rock on man, not all of us are as lucky to even have this problem 
Duh
I hope to God you’re using triple condoms with this girl, and that you don’t plan on going back to your “girlfriend” or whatever with any diseases. Would crabs or the clap be a nice early Christmas gift? Lovely! What is it lately with people having sex outside of relationships?? Jeepers, break up with on, go out with another. How hard IS that?
Comment: this bar girl is an easy fuck and probobly has seen more cock then the urinals at McDonalds
Suggestion: break up with your girlfriend. She deserves better.
(can I say “cock” here?)
Zette
What Zette said.
From your words and your actions, you are not interested in your current girlfriend. Break up with her as easily as you can (Which is sort of like ripping ducktape off your face quickly as opposed to slowly), so the both of you can move on.
As far as this waitress? Enjoy the sex if that’s what you’re after, but be safe. Don’t expect a relationship with her, though. It might happen, but probably not.
Looks like you just did, and I must compliment you on such a creative use of the word. Great job Zette.
Duh
Ok, I see that you doubt me. I have to tell you, that this is a very real experience for me, and I have to admit that something like this has never happened to me before. Anyway, I will be careful when I go over there. Anyway, if she wanted to kill me, she could have done it last night while I was asleep. I went to sleep long before she did. I’m not going to go over to her apartment without her being there, either. I’m not going to do that. that would be very wrong. She called me today and told me that she is going shopping for some dress clothes (she told me that there is this fantastic reastaraunt that she wants to take me to). I understand the bondage between shopping and women. Anyway, I’m goin over there this evening at about 5:00. Will give details.
I did use a condom! I’m not as stupid as you are think I am!
However, I have the worst of anything anyway. I’m a diabetic. As far as I’m concerned, there is no other disease(besides cancer, which also runs in my family) as bad as diabetes.
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Think of it this way: you know what will kill you. It’s going to be a surprise for healthy people. “Oh, gee! I never expected cancer/heart disease/dengue fever!” For you it will be something related to diabetes. Maybe.
You do realize that there have been demonstrated cases of AIDS being passed through cunnilingus? And that ghonorrhea of the throat is very nasty and hard to cure—do you have a condom for your tongue and throat?
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They have those, yes. It’s called saran wrap or an oral napkin(?). Basically, it’s a big sheet of latex or whatnot that covers the area. Whether or not anyone uses one is another issue.
Ok people, check it out:
I had a fantastic night. I had to come home because I have to go to work early tomorrow. No sex tonight. We just went out to a coffee shop on the Ft. Worth Square, sat and talked for a few hours. I did ask her about the key. she told me that she was just giving me the key so I could let myself out in the morning. I woke up about 2 hrs after she went to school. She is a student at TCC. We go to the same campus, but she has 8:00am classes and mine start at 10:ooam. Anyway, she said that she didn’t expect me to come back to her apartment when she wasn’t there. I wasn’t going to anyway. We have a date on Sunday. I really like her. Tamra has been a total bitch to me all weekend. she was yelling at me on the phone earlier today and I just hung up on her. I don’t have to take that shit. Anyway, I am going to tell tamra about Sandra anyway. Our relationship has turned to shit, and I would rather be alone than in a shitty relationship. will give details on Tuesday.