Last night was the first night that I have ever had a one night stand. It was with a waitress at a bar that me and a buddy went to. We went out to the bar and had a few drinks, and I start to notice that the waitress is starting to frequent our table more and more often to ask us if we need anything else. So she wanders over and asks us if we need anything else for about the 30th time, and I just cant hold it in, and I tell her “I need a date”. And she says “Thats a special request”. So she goes to the bar, buyes me a shot of something that tasted like a cinniman stick, and at the bottom of it is a piece of paper that has her name and the time that she gets off. So anyway, I met her after work, with my friends, and we went out to the Ft. Worth Square and had a good old time. Any way, we ended up having the best sex that I have ever had, I mean with the whipped cream and everything. She wore a little whipped cream bikini. With cherries. Anyway, so I wake up the next morning and she has left her phone number, and also left an extra key to her apartment. She wants me to come back tomorrow. Anyway, I really found that we have more in common than the verbally abusing freak that I am dating (if you can even call it that), and I think that I am going back over there tomorrow night. Comments, suggestions?
Perhaps you should dump the verbally abusing freak that you are dating.
excellent score dude!
Thank you, thank you. I even feel as if I am more comfortable around this girl who I have only known for a combined total of about 19 hours (plus sleeping time) than my current gf, who I have known ever since our senior year of High School.
Which was a long, long time ago.
Or thats what it seems to me.
nugens
It sounds like you attract psychos. 
So, did you lick the WHOLE bikini off?
Psychos. eh? Well, you’re certainly interested. And as a matter of fact, I did lick off the entire bikini. The only thing that is a problem with that much whipped cream, is that it gives me cotton mouth. So I had to wet my mouth on something to continue the foreplay.
You might try breaking up with your girlfriend first.
(not using the smiley intentionally)
Putz.
And what made you think we wanted to hear this?
:: dropzone looks around the room ::
Oh, yeah.
Topic 1: The waitress
I would not be so excited about getting involved with a woman who gives out her house keys on the first date. That is not to say that you should not see her again–please do see her again and give us more details. I’d just be a little careful.
Topic 2: The girlfriend
If she is a verbally abusing freak, what are you doing with her?
Topic 3: A hot topic on the boards these days
You are cheating on your long-term girlfriend. This is not cool. You have 2 options. Option 1 is to stop seeing the waitress. Option 2 is to dump the girlfriend. I recommend Option 2.
Cheating isn’t cool.
Dishonesty isn’t cool.
Whichever road you take, make sure you do so able to keep your head high and with truth on your side.
Are you sure you’re just eager because of the chance of new/different sex?
And how much do you care about your g/f?
Ok, to start off with, I haven’t had something this good happen to me in a long time, and I am the type of person who has had a relationship of some kind for most of my life. If it wasn’t a sexual relationship, then it was a relationship where we were just together to be with one another. I guess that you could say that I get very lonly really fast. I do have millions of friends, and go and see them on a regular basis, but my life just doesn’t feel complete withought a female companion. I have been with Tamra (current girlfriend) for the past 10 mnts, and I hate to admit that she hasn’t grown up yet. Still lives off of parents, nor responsible, trashes everything up, ect. Anyway, I am a very clean person, have worked for everything in my life, ect, and I am a very mature, and responsible person. We have a problem. Any way, when I went to Sandra’s apartment, new girl, everything was clean, put away, and I just had the overall impression that she is a very “right” (if I am using that work correctly) person. I stayed up all night and talked with her last night, and we have millions of things in common, and we think on the same level. This is the type of person that I am interested in. I am going to be wary with giving the apartment key away, and I won’t dive in too deep, however I will go over to her apartment tomarrow, and will give all of yall the lowdown.
Well, it’s only a one night stand if you don’t call her, right? Personally, I have no problem with first date sex. In fact, I’m all for it, especially if there is a real attraction.
Demo & Green Bean, this doesn’t sound like a girlfriend to me, much less a “long-term” girlfriend.
chadg033, I say it sounds like a better deal than you got now. If it feels right, go for it!
I do tend to agree with Green Bean about the giving of the keys after one night though. Hopefully, she’s just a little too trusting of you and not some psycho who freely distribute her keys to the general public. Best of luck!
I care alot for Tamra, its just I can’t stand it when I try to help her with things and she treats me like shit. I am always totally honest, so I will tell her, regardless of the outcome, I just want to tell her something definite. And no, I am not only interested in sex. I have done the whipped cream thing before, but to me it was something fairly new to me. but no, like I said, I am interested in the relationship first, the sex and other things are just additional incentives and rewards.
Oops, I stand corrected. Not exactly a first there…
Still say this sounds like a better deal, though.
Sorry, but I am with GB on this one. No sane, single woman gives out her house key to a stranger she met in a bar and fucked, with whipped cream no less. You got yourself a certified fruitcake, chad. Tread lightly.
I certainly am NOT interested!
Anyway, what kind of chick does that on the first “date”?
Well, a girl I lived with for three years and had my most significant adult relationship with, for one. Secondly, the kind of girl who has no hangups over sex. Thirdly, the kind of girl who tends to not play games. Lastly, the kind of girl who tends to see things from a more “male” point of view.
Thus making them easier to get along with for those of us who believe that John Gray speaks martian.
As always, YMMV.
If the waitress was that quick to latch on to ya she’ll be that quick to dump ya when she gets a better toy.
Just a thought.
Listen, it was fun. It was something to remember.
BUT, a girl who gives out KEYS???
Come on, start thinking with the brain and not the head. I’m not trying to be offensive, but that’s a red flag if there ever was one.
Finally, one last question, do you think you’re the only one who has had an encounter like this with her? Watch yourself with this one.
BTW: Lose your girlfriend–you’re obviously not interested.
I’m with prosser on this one. I could be wrong, but a girl giving me a key to her apartment makes me think of horrible, horrible things. Like unlocking her door, walking in, and seeing an axe coming at my head. Or some kind of wierd ass ‘Misery’ thing. I would have left the key there and run like hell. I could be way off base here, though. Just be careful.