Ok Ok I have a confession

Here it is… I don’t have a preference for white women, even though I am myself a white male, I told my family and they were like ‘Oh you’re a racist’ but I have only just realised the last two girls I had strong feelings for were not white and I keep checking out non-white girls all the time, but, well I have a conumdrum, I have no confidence towards non white girls, because when I find women hot, lol, I just close myself down…I guess I’m just shy…

Yeah anyway back to the confession, I don’t find blondes attractive at all, I find darker women much more alluring, is it to do with stereotypes? Colonialism? I have gone far to debunk those myths within myself, I have achieved success in doing so, but I think non-white women are still very very hot, is it a phase? Or am I with this preference for life (I wouldn’t mind!!)
Well this is all very embarrasing, but I needed to get it out, thanks for your input, lol if I get any…

You like what you like. No apologies needed. Tell your family to sod off.

There was this Somalian girl at my college who had thick long hair, she was gorgeous, but I thought ‘what would my family think?’

Fortunately, there are no quotas to be observed in this particular arena.

A woman is a woman is a woman.*

When you find what you like, go for it!

You still sound young, though. Give yourself some time to figure out what you really do like. (This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t date, just that time is on your side.)
*but a good cigar is a smoke!

Dude,

Hot is hot. Not is Not.
thank you.