Okay, guys: blonde, brunette, or redhead?

Except for the lack of importance, I have to disagree with you there, my friend.

First, I’m assuming this poll is more about what turns your head when looking at women you don’t know yet, because of course you will always love the hair color of the woman you are with.

I’ve had serious relationships with all the options here, and agree that in general hair color is largely irrelevant when evaluating a strange woman’s desirability - it is at most, a lagniappe, a bow on the package…except for the rare cases of blondes with dark skin.

Yes, it never naturally occurs, and is a conscious, arguably phony, stylistic choice on their part, but man-oh-man, there is something absolutely heart-stopping about it.

The three most visually stunning girls I’ve been with were dark-skinned asian + blonde, black / mixed + blonde, and hispanic / arabic + blonde. They were all high maintenance, and crazy in both good and bad ways, but as a visual style it is without parallel.

And the “crazy in good ways” in those relationships I suppose has conditioned me enough that whenever I see it, there’s a deep Pavlovian switch that goes on, and I can’t help but pay attention now. :slight_smile:

Jet Black straight long hair always catches my eye. Maybe because I spent most of my 20’s in Asia.

Redheads? Never. Way back when I was still “babysitting” age, there was an “incident” with a redheaded babysitter. Never recovered even to this day.

But it was funny in high school where there was a HOT redhead (or so all the other guys said) that thought I was just playing hard to get when I was the only one to show no interest. She pursued me no end, but I genuinely could not get excited about her. Then I started dating her brunette haired younger cousin and she really freaked out. I had no idea they were related.

Sorry Heidi.

Brunettes - specifically jet-black hair. I live in Montreal which has a great gene pool for that. There is a significant Italian population as well as a lot of middle-easterners, so the view is always good.

All of the above, even better if they manage to get every color at once.

Though I tend to be drawn to blondes, everywhere from platinum to dirty.