I am 22 years old, the youngest of three; my father is 50. If my father had sex with a woman younger than me, it would be creepy as hell.
I’m sure josejones would be just fine with a 50+ man defiling his daughter. He has more experience and stuff, right? Or not, considering how unlikely this whole thing is… as another poster said, when I was in high school, you would have been made fun of crazy for dating a guy who was dad-age.
My dad is crazy enough, I can’t imagine his reaction to me dating a man his age.
And I never found a guy my dad’s age to be “sexy” in any sense while in high school.
But thats just me… i’m not olive toned (very white), I never was a cheerleader(very nerdy), and I have red hair. (very nerdy.)
Also, she eschewed everyone in her high school for you? Either shes a spectacularly uninteresting girl, or you’re a spectacularly manipulating guy… heres a :wally for you to share. You don’t exactly warrant a whole one, either of you.
Defiling? What the fuck? Sex is evil and dirty - anyone who has sex is defiled forever? Again, what the fuck?
Maybe she meant deflowering?
One of the definitions of defile on dictionary.com is “to violate the chastity of”, which seems like an appropriate and not uncommon use of the word to me.
Well, again, violation? If the story is true, she was a willing partner. How is that violation either?
The poster in question also used the phrase “creepy as hell” to describe this incident; why are you surprised over the use of “defiling” as well?
Maybe I shouldn’t be. Plenty of people do find a large age gap to be creepy. I don’t, but I don’t get bent out of shape that others do. It’s the use of such a loaded word to refer to an act of consensual sex that bothers me - as if sex in and of itself is bad.
I think it’s really just semantics… but to me it does not imply a violation of her, but the definition specifically said a violation of chastity, which really is exactly what occurs when one loses one’s virginity. Sure, it might not be the most complimentary way of putting it, but I really believe that the poster meant it as a synonym for “deflowering”, which, technically, I think it is.
Y’know, if I wasn’t engaged…naw, let’s just not go that route.
I’m on the fence, being a 36-year-old who had a teenager express interest in giving a blow.
I don’t think Panda meant that sex is evil and dirty. I read her use of “defiling” as describing how Jones might see it if his 45 year old buddy helped his (Jose’s) teenager daughter lose her virginity and were bragging about it on a message board. Even if it were consensual, I’m doubting Jones would say to his buddy, “You go, Fred, you de man!”
Where is Jones, btw? We’re losing steam here without him.
Exactly. Of course sex is beautiful and magical and great, but treating it like a Penthouse Forum story kinda takes some of the beauty from that, IMHO; no matter what the age difference or any other difference between the partners.
Unless you’re not going for beautiful or magical and instead want hot sweaty monkey sex.
To each their own.
But still, defiled? That implies damage; I don’t see that here. I suppose I’ve just been in too many threads lately arguing about words. I’ll relax now. Sorry.
So basically you’re Willow? :eek:
I call dibs!
You guys should be careful, she’ll start messing with the black arts and get all weird. Also she’ll realize she’s a lesbian, so basically you’re just doomed to unhappiness.
In certain Thelemic circles that’s considered a definite plus 
Ah… lesbians… that means no port for the insertion of anything male 
But, there is always video tape…
I still call dibs!
He said this a while back