(Old) Flyboy’s Birthday🎂in the new MMP~

TokyoBoy left for his three-day trip. He was pretty anxious this morning, but we work on self-talk, “it’s all going to be fine.” Up to the last moment he was debating the quantities and contents of his snack.

They were meeting at the local train station and we arrived to see no one else there. For a worrywart, it almost sent him into panic until we realised the people were accross the small road.

Once he got with his friends, all was well and parents were forgotten. He’ll have fun, I’m sure.

Back when TokyoWife was pregnant and worried about everything, I asked my sister what should be done, and her recommendation was to listen to what she was concerned about, then just say “I think it will be ok” in with a considerate tone. That seems to work for the kids as well.

Speaking of TokyoWife, she’s back today, so it’s a massive clean the house day before I get served with papers. Not sure if they would be a divorce or simply an eviction notice, but she wouldn’t be happy coming back to this mess.

I simply don’t know how single parents do it all the time. I guess you develop more effecive habits.

Remember me bragging to all and sundry about finding 120 bucks? Yeah, I do know better, but I was high, what can I say.

Tonight the fan went out on hub’s fancy pants bbq/smoker. After googling how to broil hamburgers, dinner happened, and then hubs went to the manufacturer’s webpage and learned that a new fan would be 105 bucks, so I got hopeful that I could at least take hubs out for a slice of pizza…but then remembered shipping.

I looked them up too since we’re going to be vacationing just a few miles northeast of Green Bay this summer. Since the store is all the way on the other side of the state on the Mississippi, there wasn’t a good chance that we’d drive over. After looking at the menu, there’s no chance. $32 for a pie? Sheesh. The best blueberry pie on the face of the earth is made in PawPaw, MI and only costs $11. It’s dutch blueberry and is packed with so many blueberries and the very best crust! Our daughter is driving home this weekend to stay for a week. I need to call the Blueberry Farm and make sure they’re open on Saturday so she can pick up a pie for me.

Good freaking luck!!! I’ll have a good thought for you.

I don’t think there are anymore independent docs around here; they’re all affiliated with the huge hospital chains that keep getting larger as many of them are merging.

Thabk you, and what an excellent idea! I have both coffee and strawberry in the freezer –

… so of course Monkey jumped into my lap for snuggles just now.

I don’t drink sodas, but I thought that sodas were not that costly to produce.

I will say that I cancelled an order when I was told that I would be charged for a cup of water at a Taco Bell. I was already in line at the drive through, so I’m guessing I inconvenienced them by being the odd car that just drove off (the order was cancelled, but I still had to wait until I could get out of line), but I’m NOT paying a dollar for a cup of ice water at a drive through when I could have gotten a small clear cup for water if I was willing to sit inside and eat. grumbles.

I have a guy who is happy to follow me around and do handyman things such as put magnetic latches on our cabinets (which happened today) and hubs is good with that. My guy has been in every room of our home as well as spending time in my potting shed. My guy knows almost as much about us as our housekeeper and I’ve had him for almost as long as we’ve had her.

The reason Hubs was on the ladder is because he certainly couldn’t allow our handyman to know where his super secret BLACK security cameras were attached to our WHITE and CREAM house. :crazy_face:

I am SO happy he is doing better. I hope you will start feeling better now that you feel better about your precious pup.

I am so cracking up now. Poor Gormless George was never going to stop hitting hisself on the head with the cabinet doors because that would involve figuring out that when his paw stopped holding the door, he got smacked on the noodle.

The magnetic latches were installed this morning and GG has been entertaining himself by playing Jack in the Box in our walk in tub. He likes to grab one of his fuzzy balls and jump into the tub and then do many spectacular killing pounces while making a whole bunch of noise and jumping 4 feet in the air to land with a killing bite.

Many hopes for good things for everyone, but poor kitty. He must be mortified every time it happens.

Yup. You touch the future every day.

We will miss you and I hope you have the best time forever. That dress is totally you and deserves much flouncing and butt wiggling while you sing!

Waves back.

I’ve been wanting some nice glass mixing bowls. I bought a set of plastic ones that have served me faithfully for many years, but I like glass better than plastic because that’s what I want, so I was pretty happy to find a very nice set on Nextdoor for 15 bucks.

Tomorrow will be a busy day, I will be picking up surplus produce for us and for TC friend. After I get that sorted out, which includes texting friends to ask what they want out of my box, I will be taking some of it to friend with chickens and picking up some eggs. NF wants a dozen which is fine, which makes it easier because I only have to come up with 6 dollars cash instead of three singles for one dozen.

I run through ones like nobodies business out here. The gas stations take plastic but the local folks don’t. I don’t, but I sell my cheese through vendors who take money off the top for dealing with that sort of thing and then just write me a check so I don’t get ones from them either. :roll_eyes:

GG is wailing. (I am laughing) He played one of his furry balls so much it went under the baby gate and he can’t reach it.

He could jump over the gate, grab his fuzzy ball and jump back over the gate before anyone knew what had happened, but that’s never going to happen.

Hubs just tried to distract GG with a different furry ball, but when that wasn’t good enough, he retrieved the special furry ball for GG. Who had forgotten what was going on and had gone outside to play in the water.

Been up since 2:30-ish because stoopit sleep patterns, I guess. Not impressed. FCD has to take his mom to get blood drawn today, then to the dentist. I’ll have Tobias, but Daughter is planning on a shorter summer hours - 8-2. So I can take Tobias to her school at 2 and she can fetch Roxy.

Not sure what else the day holds - at the moment, I’m too tired and not nearly caffeinated enough to think. We’re starting to plan for a week away on the boat as soon as FCD gets the fuel tank fixed. I’m thinking we can bop around the northern part of the Bay - more research is needed.

Happy Wednesday anyway!

Other than cash tips for van drivers, etc., at work I don’t use cash. So I never get any small bills in change; it just goes out, never in. My solution? Modern ATMs dispense $1, $5, $20, & $100 bills. I just stop by the bank every so often and pick up a stack of $1s. When that gets burned through, go get more.

Her Ladyship is up unexpectedly early and has created a vast number of things that must be done before we leave at 11am. So now we’re in a hurry already at 7am. Sigh. Talk to y’all next Mon.

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’. YAWN ‘Tis 72 Amurrkin out and partly N.O.S. with a predicted high of 84 with strong thunderstorms predicted to start a little later this mornin’ and continue throughout the day. We shall see. This mornin’ we shall procure provisions. Sup shall be shrimpies ‘n grits and bacon wrapped spareguts cause we haven’t had that in a while. Also, I have a search committee meetin’ over to the church house at five-thirty p.m. Some days it’s hard to figure sloth and general overall uselessness into the schedule!

RealFish and Pilot have fun on your respective trips.

JtC poor GG’s life is just fraught with trauma!

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then, alas and bother, I suppose I must needs purtify and don attire appropriate for bein’ amongst the great unwashed. How I suffer for my public!

Happy Hump Day Y’all!

Morning all. Made it to 7am before awakening and promptly started a big pile of shirts and gym shorts in the washer, which are now on spin if I can hear correctly. It is raining outside and T-Boomers and stuff are due in about 2-3 hours, so at least the lawn will be well-watered. May get my swimming-n-sauna in later and do some house tidying along the way, but nothing much on the agenda. Only getting to 78F today according to the Weather Wizards.

swampy, just checked the ‘future’ weather map on Weather Underground and yeah, looks like most of the Ali-bama-Georgia area is going to get soaked/thundered at. Take care.

Pilot, enjoy the trip. You too, Real Fish. Don’t forget about your friends here, it’ll be a bit lonely without you two (and Niner will be gone for their interview).

JtC, I think you’re right, but they are a major profit for lots of things, and many places have a ‘all you can drink’ policy for in-store dining, so I guess they need to take that into account. I only buy my 12oz cans when they are on sale, when they run about $0.40-0.42 per can, so yeah, that’s a nice margin. And never ordered water at any drive through, but charging you a buck for it is ridiculous.

And as for the 'income outgo", at least you had it easily at hand.

Sensei, hope Tokyo Boy really enjoys his adventure.

I’ve occasionally gone to the local craft breweries and tried their products, just not a drinker except on rare occasions…which meeting you would be,

OK, think the spin cycle is complete, so need to transfer the mess of clothes to the dryer. All y’all take care and have a good Hump Day.

G’morning, kids! It’s warm and hazy this morning and the air smells like a campfire. The sun is a dull orange eye blinking languidly through the smoke. Feels just like home!

Not much doing today. I’ll tidy up a few things in the library and tinker with my “results narrative” for the conference.

Travel save, RealFish and Pilot!

What are y’all searching for, Swampy?

Niner’s interview is scheduled for 10 am and is to be conducted over videocall, so she shall be in attendance Friday morning and she shall deliver updates!

Blueberry pie, yum.

I’ve decided to replace the flooring on the first floor with laminate parquet. Parquet, you say? Isn’t that soooo 80s? It could be 80s but it also old money. The guy is coming to measure next week. It will be the usual PITA and freak out but I can handle it. I’m also replacing the patio door which hasn’t been opened in years because I know it wouldn’t close.

PT at 1pm. The rest of the day is hanging around, decluttering. I’m tired of stuff. Cue George Carlin.

my stretch was a ce cat. it was easier for him to play in the tub. he liked nubbly superballs. the nubs would have them bounce in unexpected ways and stretch would bounce around after it. because of him the other 2 when they arrived would add their favourite toys to the tub.

my tub would have 6 or 7 toys in it at a time.

Real Fish and Pilot, enjoy your trips.

We just were told by the baseball coach that TokyoBoy isn’t allowed to continue practicing with the baseball team. Apparently, you must be a “registered member” and commit to attend all five games they play during the spring to fall period.

As TokyoBoy is doing sailing as well, there are occational times when things conflict, such as last weekend. The game was rained out on Saturday and they had to play it on Sunday, but we needed to practice sailing. The coach did not like that.

The absurd thing is that there is another boy who is also a fill-in player. He’s on the basketball but they need him for the games so he can practice for a month before a game.

The coach gave an ultimatum of choosing baseball over everything else or not be allowed to practice. When I said we’ll probably chose sailing he said that they will likely need TokyoSon for the games anyway. If so, WTF would they prohibit him from practicing?

Japan is like this a lot. Some things just don’t make sense!

Japan has this big thing about being an insider or outsider and some groups such as baseball are much more traditional about it.

We’ll take it over with TokyoSon after he’s back, but I’m pretty sure he’ll want to go with the basketball club. They aren’t as rigid in their thinking.

It’s going to be the baseball team’s loss anyway. They are losing two 9th graders and they’ll have to replace them with 6th graders. Had they let him continue to practice, I’m sure he could have done much better, something the coach also said.

Weird

3 slides, several thousand packages, and having to run up and down four foot stairs every 20 minutes. And that was just last night. I ended up missing The Stanley Cup final game. Vegas won, which made me happy. Not because I like Vegas, but because the Florida coach was Carolina’s coach(twice!) during the bad years, and payback’s a bitch. I am a small and petty man when it comes to sports. :smiley:
Read, but did not retain, so < hugs, noogies, wolf whistles, and skritches >.

Spot has 50 cat and dog toys, and is currently playing with a rock.

Make that 51 toys … :slight_smile:

The ortho clinic called. The earliest MRI appointment is 6/29, so over 2 weeks away, and the follow-up appointment to get results would probably be 2 weeks after that, they said. Why can’t they just call me to report results? I’m on the very long cancellation list. I called the hospital to see if they have shorter wait times for their MRI, but ever since that corporate takeover, you have to call the big corp’s main number, which does the scheduling for all their hospitals. I was on hold for 45 minutes before I gave up.

Can you tell I’m frustrated? From the time I went to the ortho walk-in clinic to the projected time I’ll get a call with results will be 6 weeks. Who makes injured people wait 6 weeks to get diagnosed? I think I’ll call the ortho doc and raise a little polite hell. Their phone system is infamous for being a Byzantine maze with blind corridors, but I shall triumph! Or get lost.

Real Fish, that’s a cute, swingy little dress that looks great on beautiful you!

That’s such a clever way to approach the diet! When is D-Day?

shoe, I hope work eases up soon. Monkey snuggles sound like good medicine.

pilot, aside from delays, do thunderstorms make your job harder? How big of a nuisance are they?

Thank you! I enjoy figuring out dietary constraint work arounds. Today at 1:00 PM I go to the clear liquid diet. I was going to start this early (last night at 5:30 PM I had a little rice, and nothing since), but I realized I’d probably throw up my morning meds if I didn’t eat, so I had some cornflakes with half a banana and milk, and coffee with a little milk. So only a 4-hour-early start, and it will have to do. The prep starts at 5:00 PM. I’m taking Sutab (tablets and water) this time, so I have water chilling and I do the first round from 5:00-6:45 PM; the second is 4:15-5:45 AM tomorrow. Between doses, I anticipate spending most of my time in the downstairs bathroom, which I will outfit today with a water glass, a book, my journal, an adjustable table, my laptop, my phone, and an iPod. Sleep, such as it can happen, will be in the guest room adjacent, with a pad and without a cat. Procedure is Thursday. I’m quite unimpressed with the clinic infrastructure, but the doc has no malpractice cases on his license.

lager has also found rock as a toy. koritza was kind enough to knock it off a shelf for him.

koritza believes the only amusement of rock is gravity. lager likes how it zips along the floors.

Happy Hump Day!

and life is going just dandy!

I got very little sleep Moonday night because I hurt. I woke up every 45 minutes or so and tried to find a new position where something didn’t hurt.

Then last night!
Does anybody want a bratty black dog?

I fell asleep in the recliner and woke around 1130.
I needed to pee and looked at the sleeping GR and wondered if I could get up and back without waking them. Maybe if Echo hadn’t come bounding down the stairs and bouncing around the kitchen because she heard me and wanted to go out.
We sat outside until 1230, letting the GR play themselves out, Only Echo wouldn’t come in, and I am not comfortable with leaving her out too long unattended. She is very good at finding escape routes.
We went in, and it gave it a bit and went back out to get Echo. Of course, the GR woke up and followed me. Echo is dancing all around and will come just close enough, and then bounce off again.
She got called a lot of very bad names.
We went back in and the GR went on the landing and started crying to go upstairs so they could go to bed. We blocked the stairs so they couldn’t sneak upstairs. Rayleigh can’t be trusted.
I went back out, taking her harness and leash, trying to catch the little bitch, and now I see the problem. She had treed something and she was not going to give up trying to get it. Probably a possum, and she loves them.
Finally, the fourth time I went out, at 4am, she got close enough for me to grab her. I dragged her into the house, at which point she turned around towards me all waggy tail and happy. Until she saw my face and said aw shit, momma’s pissed, and took off upstairs to bed.
The whole time I am doing this with her, Adam is going in and out. In to eat three bites of food, then meowing go back out. He wanted to go out the front door, but that wasn’t happening. Little bitch, he loves to come in the back door, eat three bits of food, go out the front door, then walk around to the back again. Each time he gets upset because the puppies chase him. He started his bullshit where he wants treats every time he comes in. He pushed that one time too many, and he also got the aw shit, momma’s pissed look on his face, and ran back outside.
I was going to stay downstairs since I knew my son would be getting off irk, but the GR saw Echo jump the barricade and run upstairs. They sat on the landing barking and crying, so we went up to bed.
No fooling around from them. They went right to sleep.

I had to get up at 630, and nobody wanted to get up.
I got them up, and dressed, and out the door to pick up my son.
Then we dropped Echo at daycare, and I hope her little ass gets run into the ground so she is good and tired tonight,
I managed to sleep from 8 to 1030, when the GR woke me to go outside.

I feel like the walking dead.
It is going to be a long day.

My son is having a rough time. He fell going down the basement stairs yesterday. He thought he was okay until he got to irk. Then he felt all the soreness.
Pisses me off, because he has to go down to empty the dehumidifier. If we could use the basement sink, the dehumidifier would empty into the sink. Even though the hoarder house next door has been cleaned up, they haven’t fixed the plumbing on their side of the basement, so our sink won’t drain.
For those who haven’t been around, I live in a very old duplex and both sides share the same sewer line. The last plumber who was here wouldn’t fix our sink drainage pipe, because it is connected to hers and hers is in such bad shape it will break. I really don’t give a fuck if it does, then it will be her problem to fix, not mine anymore.
I like my neighbor; she is very nice. I’m glad the hoard is gone; I don’t have problems with mice anymore (even though she and her family swear there were no mice over there). I wish she would continue to clean stuff up though, and fix the plumbing on her side, and cut down the dead tree in the back.

Driving is not going well. I don’t understand the problem. I want him to go out driving with some driver’s ed instructors. I may be the problem? My friend thinks he should take the whole course over, even though he doesn’t need the classroom part of it. Another friend thinks we should rent a small car, as the size of the truck may be a problem for him.
He needs help but refuses to get it.

Pilot, keeping the floor clean is part of why I don’t wear shoes in the house, especially during helicopter season. The biggest issue is, I don’t like shoes, I don’t like my feet closed in. Shoes are almost as bad as bras to me. I don’t even like to wear socks around the house, and I sleep with my feet outside of the covers. If I wear socks to bed, I will take them off in the middle of the night.
My toes like to breathe.
I was the kid who took off their shoes on the last day of school and didn’t put their shoes back until school started, except for church on Sunday.
I especially hate to wear shoes on stairs. I feel like I have better traction in bare feet.
I had to learn some things the hard way, like riding a horse in bare feet is not a good idea. Especially when there are sticker bushes on the trail. I haven’t been able to walk barefoot down a gravel road in many years. Little pebbles on the sidewalk hurt now too.
I ordered a pair of house shoes though. I guess I need to get used to them.

Boo, I am very nervous about going to a pain clinic. My park friend recommended them, he needs his other hip and both knees replaced and he would not be able to do anything without pain relief. My ex-neighbor, who has MS, also recommends them. My PCP won’t give me anything stronger than Meloxicam, and the orthopedic doctor won’t give me anything at all except for shots in my knee.

Getting old really sux.

I’m debating keeping the pain clinic appointment as my son may have to irk OT this week.

I emailed the lawyer about the estate, which was supposed to be done 12/31, then 3/31, then 5/31. The lawyer didn’t respond by Niece1 sent a text that everything will be done by 6/30. I guess he said something to her.
Whatever, I think this will continue to drag on.
I’m annoyed.

Sorry, getting old does suck.