I’ll just bet that the last name you are using now matches the last name on your birth certificate. That makes a big difference.
I’m a woman and I changed my last name when I got married. To get my Real ID, I had to prove the ownership transfer from my father to my husband. If I had gotten divorced and remarried, I would have had to provide all of that documentation as well.
I had to have proof that I actually lived in the same house as Hubs despite my name being on the title. Because he didn’t think to put the utilities (water and electric) in both of our names (and why would he?), we had to have the water cut off and then open a new account in my name so I could have “proof” that I lived in the house I co-owned.
This is an excellent idea. He’s buried at the big VA cemetary in Riverside, CA. I might be able to find it there as well. Thank you.
I’m receiving social security and a government pension. I’m on Medicare. I have a state issued MMJ card. I pay state and federal taxes. The government knows quite well who and what I am.
Oh, I know what’s in Mom’s hope chest and my plan when I had to deal with it was to give the whole thing to the sister who’s getting it. I am fairly sure that I can survive without my 6th grade report card or my conformation certificate. There is over 60 years of pictures and drawings and certificates and all the detritus of a long a full life, all of which have value to someone, but not to me.
Thanks for the suggestion about Ancestry.com, I will look into them. The social security admin will not help. I have to be able to prove the relationship between us before they will even consider talking to me.
I’ll put out some feelers before leaving for doctor appt, but expect I won’t get much accomplished until tomorrow when I can actually focus on it.
Today is going to be spent mostly driving around with short stops to do things. Ortho consult, Aldi stop, Dispensary stop and Distillery stop. I also have several boxes that need to be dropped off at the high school library (the library ladies say that the same kids come in regularly for the “real” food I leave and all of them appreciate the granola bars) and at the woman’s shelter. Din will probably just be foraging because we will eat at least once while we are out.
I hope everyone has great days, be safe ya’ll.