(Old) Happy Memorial Day or Just Happy Moanday in the MMP

Morning, mumpers! It’s currently 17c/63f with a predicted high of 19c/67f, and partly cloudy. Weather app says “The weather is fucking fine. Just don’t put your fucking make-up on while you drive because you’ll poke your fucking eye out.” Sound advice, right?

Over here, toad in the hole is sausages in a Yorkshire Pudding batter, the eggs go in the batter :slight_smile:

Great to hear you’ve been able to get appointments so quickly. I’m sure it will be a relief to everyone when you’ve seen them and got some more info from them.

hippie that is such gorgeous work, you are very talented. I’m glad you were able to get back to doing that too.

It’s laundry day here today, I was thinking to do it yesterday but I got..err…sidetracked!

Good to hear that untangling is going well, and there’s no unpleasantness involved. This is turning out to be one of the easiest divorces I’ve ever read about. Well done! Also, The Funky Biscuit looks like a place I’d spend far too much of my time :slight_smile:

I had a lot of catching up to day this morning, you’ve been a chatty bunch and I missed reading yesterday as I was out and about all day. Yesterday was a fundraising day at Pets at Home’s store in Merry Hell, so I was there for a couple of hours. It wasn’t very fruitful but what matters is that we were there and put in the hours as it means we qualify for funding through the P@H Foundation. After that, I came home and got changed, then we went into town for lunch at the Good Chinese Place, and went our separate ways for an hour or so of errnanding. Given the fact it was a pleasant afternoon, we opted to walk into town and do some post-errand pubbing. Well, we have to keep up with the rest of you day drinkers!

I got to The Posada first, had a natter with the barman and took our drinks out to the beer garden. One of the other bars in town must have been having some kind of outdoor event because the music from there was incredibly loud (and not fun either). We had our drinks and decided to go and investigate a couple of different places that had outdoor seating. Thus we began a little adventure investigating places we don’t normally go to! Tried the Royal London, then the Hog’s Head, then the Lych Gate (this one’s on our Wednesday pub rotation if we can find parking close by) and the George Wallis, then we headed back to familiar territory with the Clarendon Hotel and then the Combermere Arms before picking up a pizza and heading home. A very good afternoon out, and we were home in time to give Shadow his medication at the right time of night, and chilled out with a film before bed.

I have no big plans for today aside from doing some laundry. Cats are fed and medicated, litter trays are clean and I’ve had a bath! Laundry’s doing it’s thing, and we have leftover pizza for lunch. 'im indoors is cooking tonight and I know he got something out of the freezer but I’m not sure what it is. I’ll find out later. Off to sloth on the sofa for a while until I have to unload the washer and hang stuff out to dry.

I absolutely identify with this. I am the only male member of the Omaha Quilter’s Guild and my first finished project is a Double Irish Chain quilt that I sewed by hand using the English Paper piecing method. I am the odd one out but, just beginning my third year of membership I am making headway

ETA: I do not have a picture of that quilt in its finished state but in three weeks it will be hanging on display at our annual quilt show. I will get a good picture than and post it here. I am anxiously awaiting the judge’s report. Not that I thing there will be a ribbon involved but feed back from the judges will really help me up my game.

Morning all. Up before 6am as the rain kept pounding down, looks like it will clear out soon and we’ll see if more wet stuff will replace it. Need to do the Sunday Times run here shortly, then decide if I’m going to have my Sunday Dinner around noon or wait until 4-5pm instead. Decisions, decisions… Have broken fast with a banana and a tiny bag of Smartfoods White Cheddar popcorn, because I’m 72 and I’ll eat what I want.

Don’t remind me, I was up at 2am and 5:30am…really need to cut back on my Diet soda consumption, especially right before bed…

Shoe, been there, sometimes the dispensing machine at the gym has 4 large rolls all ready to deploy and sometimes…it doesn’t. And Sweet Manager may be sweet, but sometimes the whip needs to be cracked, IMHO. Hope things settle down.

swampy, happy pew plopping (wait, that didn’t come out right…).

FCM, supposed to dry up today here, but 50-50 on rain Tues-Thur.

That’s why I call them the Weather Wizards.

Boo fae, sounds like you had a really nice Pub Crawl day; I trust the servings are rather small at each place, having a pint at each of those places might be…unwise. Of course two Lite beers and I’m done, so I have no point of reference to judge.

OK, need to don the necessary attire and go purchase my Sunday paper and I think I’ll try the Gala-type apples this week. Have a good Sunday all.

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off today. And it’s June so it’s toothbrush switching, mattress flippin’ filter changing time. Plus afternoon sloth. I had fun time last night. I’m glad I took a Lyft last night. Not just because I didn’t have to worry about parking and could imbibe without worry, but with all the scantily clad hordes of young ladies wandering about, I likely would have been distracted and driven into the side of a bus. :smiley: I had fish n’ chips and a pint at London Bridge Pub around the corner before showtime. The crowd was a little older than the outside mob, befitting being fans of a band that’s been around for 35 years.

Teamwork

Maybe discobot knows.

FCD won a reprieve. His mom doesn’t want to go to church today. He just left for the marina. I just heard the dishwasher finish. Guess I should shower and dress.

BBBoo - I would like some professional medical information. I’m supposed to keep a diary of my BP. What’s the best way to ensure reasonable results? Time of day? Eat/drink or not? Activity/rest?

Yeah, I’ll ask the doc when I see her, but till then…

It’s overcast - maybe it will rain.

Yeah. It’s not about lip reading; that technique works fine even if the listener isn’t looking at you. It works because a) your voice projects forwards a lot louder and more clearly than it does backwards over your shoulder; and b) seeing who you’re speaking to causes you to focus on doing that, not trying to “multi-task” where the speaking is your 3rd or (for ADHD people) your 7th priority.

When I wanted to get late wife’s attention I’d say “I love you!”. When I got an “I love you” back I knew were were tuned in and would start talking. She did the same. We said “I love you” a lot of times every day. Another helpful habit for a successful long term marriage. If you mean it.


The sooner you start wearing hearing aids, the longer your hearing will last. I’ve been on them 5+ years now and overall I’ve been real happy with the reduction in the rate of decline. Life is much better with than without. Do it. Please.


Also, if you say it first, that’ll tend to attract their attention so they’re tuned in for the rest. We all have a background task running 24/7 listening for our name. That’s more polite or at least more discreet than opening with “Are you listening to me?” which message always sounds condescending regardless of phrasing or tone.


In many Latin countries public toilets cost money. There’s a lady stationed at the entrance to collect the local equivalent of a nickel just to enter and use the plumbing, or a quarter if you want a small sealed packet of TP too. The quantity of TP you get for your 20 cents is more than a single square but seems inadequate to wipe a woman’s frontside after peeing, much less anyone’s backside after even a hard clean #2.

OTOH, the facilities are far cleaner than the US average.

You want TP with that for an extra quarter? That’s four packs for just a dollar! :slight_smile:


If just one person learns from my adversity and avoids soiling their whole house by following the solution I shared, my ghastly afternoon will not have been spent in vain. I live only to serve … as a bad example. :grin:


It helps greatly that we a) were not married long, b) were both near or at retirement, c) were both economically self-sufficient going in, and d) given our long pre-marital history, I’m not averse to giving her a pretty hefty going away / consolation prize.

Were any of those things different I expect the outcome would have been far worse. Her first divorce was real ugly. As to her, her Mom, and her ex- I’m in no position to apportion blame for the ugliness. But there was ugliness aplenty at the time.


I guess this is just the weekend for poop jokes.


As to me this morning…
It’s been a lazy 3 hours since I got up, and a lazy 2 hours since sunrise. Bright shiny day out there so far. NWS says 84/29 on the way to 88/31. Supposed to be widely showery later, but so far not much sign of that; we shall see.

I need to leave for Miami in about 90 minutes, so time now to hit [Send], feed, shevel, sort out packing a suitcase for one overnight, and go.

Cheers all!

Happy Sunday!

Up, caffeinating, breakfasted and fixing to do Sunday chores. I do need to go pick up the prescriptions that I forgot to pick up yesterday, but other that than that, the usual lazy Sunday.

Stay safe and healthy y’all!

I’m showered and dressed. MIL is up. And so it begins.

Fun fact: The Domsetic Housecat(Felis catus) can cling to a mattress even when it is 60 degrees from horizontal. In spite of this, the mattress is flipped, and the bed remade.

I think the morning greeting in your house should be “Damage report?”

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Morning, all! I’ve skimmed everything since my last visit but am not up for quoting/responding to stuff on my iPad, so this will be another “all about me” post. :grin:

There was a lot of traffic volume on Friday, and the drive north took ~1 hour longer than it should have. I also got a later start than I should have: Thursday evening I foolishly decided that I could wait until the morning to do everything (take Bailey to the kennel, go to the grocery store [I was out of protein shakes], and pack), so I didn’t hit the road until almost 11:30. My arrival time didn’t matter, but I wound up hitting rush hour traffic at the top of the NJ Turnpike. Usually, when coming up here I try to be on the road NLT 9:30 for exactly that reason…oh well!

I’m happy with the Airbnb condo. It’s a different unit in the same building I stayed in 8-9 months ago: it’s another 1BR, with the same view (the parking lot of the water/ski/mountain biking park across the road), but I like the layout a little better than the previous unit. The air conditioning works better, too, and the balcony is more private. This unit will now be my first choice for visits when I want to stay in a condo/specifically in this town.

Yesterday’s tour of the wolf preserve was great! Though “tour” is a little strong: we walked a few feet into the middle of the enclosures for the presentation (from the guy who owns the preserve with his wife), then back out and down the fence line to see their new bobcat and lynx. There wasn’t much walking at all. It was wonderful to see wolves in person for the first time, and we got to hear multi-pack howling three times! Once was staged: they trained the wolves to howl on cue at the end of the presentation. But the two other times were spontaneous. Wolf howls have always been one of my favorite sounds — some find it creepy, but I think it’s beautiful — and I managed to get the howling on video twice, so I was a happy Misnomer. :smiley: Once I’m back home and on my computer I’ll set up an online album and share a link for those who might be interested; probably not until next weekend, though. Anyway, I could see going back sometime. They offer two “adults only” tours each month, and even though all of the kids were well-behaved I plan to book one of those next time. And going to the 3pm tour vs the 10am tour was a good choice: the preserve is an hour south of where I’m staying, so between the drives and the time at the preserve I was out for 5 hours (i.e., all afternoon).

In a little while I’ll get in the shower, and start getting ready to head to my aunt’s funeral. The visitation starts at noon, with a short service at 2pm (in the funeral home) and then a repast nearby. Same schedule, restaurant, etc., as my uncle’s/her husband’s funeral 11 months ago. I’ve spent the past two nights at my cousin’s, having dinner and then hanging out with her and her family until after midnight both times. She swears there’s nothing I can bring/nothing she needs help with this morning. I was able to send her a bunch of digital photos for the slide show that will be running, so I’m glad I was able to contribute in that way. I haven’t seen either of my male cousins yet; I’ll see them (and my brother) today. It’s going to be a long afternoon. :blue_heart:

I don’t know if I’ll hang out at my cousin’s again tonight — she/we might be exhausted by the time the repast ends — or if I’ll just watch TV in the condo and try to go to bed early. I plan to be on the road NLT 9am tomorrow, and aside from putting gas in the car at the start of the trip I hope to make just one stop (at lunchtime…if my bladder cooperates :wink: :crossed_fingers:). I have a target pickup time for Bailey of 3pm, which gives me about an hour of cushion; it’s fine if I get there later, but I’d like to hit that if I can. And I’ll have to go home first, to empty the car and pick up the cushions she uses when riding with me.

Alright, it’s shower time…enough rambling outta me! I hope everyone has a good Sunday.

Sometimes, ya gotta relax and lay back for a bit … or it WILL be done FOR you, as your meds attest.

You and everyfuckingbody else yesterday. (I’m fairly certain we are on opposite sides of a rather large puddle, but it still amuses me that yet another person got :pizza: yesterday.)

Jeebus, I really needed some time off!

I understood … very few words of this sentence, at least without googling.

Lotsa fiber - I’d say that’s reasonably healthy.

Oh, she does, and she did. Repeatedly.

Her nickname here is only partly about her personality (it’s also a direct play on her IRL name) but she’s one of those women who … look, she doesn’t have to yell or cuss, you KNOW when she’s mad, and it’s the rare - and foolish - person who crosses her when she’s mad.

She’s got the retail manager equivalent of a night nurse voice.
When you hear it, you just know - in the soul of your bones - best obey now.

A double poop joke. Very well done, good sir.

I laughed my ass off at this. So much truth.

Oh, and nice weather forecasting cartoon!

Holy hell, I’ve never heard it put that way, but ain’t that the truth.

We gotta adult with laundry and finances and illnesses; we can make poop jokes (and fart jokes!) as a consolation prize.

That must’ve been magical. Count me on Team Howl - I love that sound.

Mornin’ everyone.

It’s 59 degrees Fahrenheit and cloudy outside. It’s supposed to be raining right now, but it hasn’t started here. The showers are supposed to evolve into steady rain, with about half an inch possible. We have flood watch warnings, and our high temperature will only be around 61 degrees Fahrenheit.

Of course, it’s supposed to be really nasty tomorrow during my commute down to Oly town. I really hope the forecast is wrong and it’s only slightly damp. There are some really bad spots along that commute for standing water, and while traffic is pretty light when I commute in, there are still lots of semis that push the standing water to either side of them, causing lots of problems for those in regular-sized vehicles.

I only saw a few rain sprinkles yesterday, not enough to wet the pavement.

I don’t have any real plans for today—the usual laundry thing. I need to dash over to the gas station and fuel up the Jeep too. I meant to do that Friday, but it just slipped my mind.

Oopsie, I love the sound of howling wolves. It’s both thrilling and calming. I don’t know how to explain it any other way. Raging storms affect me the same way.

Trying to put ear drops in the puppies’ ears continues to be a struggle. I even bought one of the calming snoods for each pup so I could pull it up over the ears to prevent them from shaking out the drops. They both had the snood off in seconds. But we persevere! I hope this works, and we don’t have to complete a second two-week round of drops.

FCM, it’s good you could find a neurologist to get you in earlier than August. I also hope you and the docs can find a medication dose that doesn’t make you feel fuzzy-headed.

Well, I need to get a start on the chores. I got to sleep in today because my husband got up with the pups. Consequently, I’m late in starting my chores, and I’m already regretting sleeping in. On the other hand, I really needed it.

Be ready to be more amused because Hubs picked up a :pizza: yesterday when he was out mailing a BD card to his sis.

Went to mass, brought Holy Communion home to Hubs, fed the fish, made chili cheese omelettes for breakfast, made a thorough shopping list and about to head out to Kroger.

taters don’t be regretting the sleeping in. The chores will always be there; they’re never ending (there’s always tomorrow, next week, next month) but when your body needs sleep, it’s best to get it. :sleeping_bed:

I’s sweaty. I decided to weed my veggie patch and get some decomposed leaf mulch in the woods. Lots of worms in the mulch! I got just 2 small cart loads because it’s a tad warm and my head is fuzzy. But there was enough for an initial layer around all the plants. I can dig up more later. For now, the sprinkler is wetting the mulch and I have a big glass of ice water.

MIL just got up again - I think she’s getting dressed. I only offer to help with certain things and dressing isn’t one of them. If she asks, I’ll be right there. But I give her as much independence as I feel is safe. For example, no way will I let her go down the ramp alone, even with her walker.

Daughter is coming over after Tobias has his nap. Till then, chillage.

From the American Heart Assiciation:

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Consistency of timing and circumstances is important as is no caffeine (even Diet Coke :cup_with_straw: ):cry:, posture when you take it, following carefully the instructions that came with your machine. Here’s a criticical guideline most people neglect to follow from those instructions: … Be still. Allow at least five minutes of quiet rest before measurements. Don’t talk or use the phone….That’s gonna be tricky for you with MIL always around saying “hunh? What’s that? Why are you doing that? Hunh?”

Freelancing here: even if your machine offers to keep your readings in its memory, also always keep a paper and pencil log. I’ve lost count of the clients I took care of that lost all their readings before they could give them to their doc because of some device gremlin. Always have a backup pack of good quality batteries on hand. Here’s a printable BP log:

Handy colorful visual of “how to”. Print that up and keep it handy~maybe Dr. Roxstar would enjoy supervising your BP readings using it.

Another important bit that few people do but is important:

… Once you’ve purchased your monitor, take it to your next appointment.

Have your health care professional check to see that you are using it correctly and getting the same results as the equipment in the office. Plan to bring your monitor in once a year, or as directed by the company, to make sure the readings are accurate…

When you take your machine, you can calibrate its results with the results the drs office gets. Maybe your machine always gets a systolic 5 points higher than the docs-not a problem as long as everybody knows that. I’m sure engineering has a fancier and more precise term for that, we nurses call it field calibration.

Buy a good quality machine-now is not the time to save a few dollars. Here’s Consumer Report’s recommendation:

…. https://www.consumerreports.org/health/blood-pressure-monitors/c33754/

All 3 of their top ‘Smart Buy’ arm cuff ratings are Omron and that’s very consistent with my nursing experience-my nursing bag for home visits had Omron devices because I could rely on them. You don’t have to get the most expensive of the Omron ones, any of the ‘Smart Buy’ ones will serve you well. Here’s an expanded rating:

Wrist BP cuffs look easier (and they are if you’re doing your own), but resist-they are not nearly as accurate for your purposes. Actually they are trickier to use properly than the arm cuff ones but that is not obvious.

This Consumer Reports buying guide has some more good tips, especially in the “doing it properly” bit at the end.

Best Blood Pressure Monitor Buying Guide - Consumer Reports

You’ll be relieved to know that Costco doesn’t carry any of the top-rated ‘Smart Buy’ BP machines so you can safely ignore them :winking_face_with_tongue:. I use Amazon for that-there are links in the Consumer Reports guides to make that easier than trying to wade through Amazon’s byzantine and self-serving algorithm.

If any of those links don’t work, PM me and we’ll figure out another way for me to get them to you.

Basically, my advice is: “if you’re gonna do it, do it right”. That probably works for both nurses and engineers. I’ll add on “don’t be penny wise and pound foolish”-take the extra steps and effort to find an Omron. Don’t bother with Walgreens or Walmart, unless it is one of the top rated models.

If I was you, I’d be tempted to also do some readings occasionally outside of your 2 usual daily ones and record them (be sure to always note the context). Like after you’ve been out working in yard, replicating the conditions that your ER event happened in. No harm in doing that, at least a couple of times-might prove illuminative.

Rainy-ish.
Church was so wonderful!
Having 2 slices of pickle right now.
May walk to the corner for some chips.

I have an Omron unit that BC/BS sent me - I think it’s a pretty good one, and I will take it on Wednesday. Never occurred to me to compare.

No caffeine, huh? So it looks like first thing after feeding Higgs but before feeding me. Thanks - I’ll print out the sheet instead of logging on my phone.

Waiting for Daughter and the grands to arrive. Chillin’

Woah, Boo that was one helluvan informative post. I know you have a bonked noggin, but it’s got some seriously in-depth shit still stored in there!

I see we have similar eating portions.


Entirely too bright and sunny out there today. It was pouring all last night and I want it back dammit!

Looked at my To-Do List, waved my hand dismissively.

ETA Charm just got out, again, and I just figured out why. Hold all my calls, I have a new Top Priority. This is gonna require some serious engineering.